I don't know what I should do since it had been almost a month that I haven't seen my husband who left me to be with his dad. I will be attending to my second month (I was married aug 5, 2006) of being married to a man who walked out on me on Sept 10-11 while I was ill and taking care of my family. His father told me that my husband and he went to get an annullment, which I never recieved it. So here I am wondering what to do because I don't want to get annullment but at the same time, I am very mad at my husband for what he had done. what do you think what should I do?
2006-10-03 10:49:44 · 17 answers · asked by Deaf Cowgirl 27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did talk to him when my husband called me and asked me what I want to do with our marriage. What's hurt the most that he has betrayed me by leaving me when I was ill and taking care of my both parents. My parents want me to focus on my own health for good because I was like a zombie to everyone when he left me. Every time I tried to call him and his dad would tell me to quit calling him and his son and etc. I found this crazy as well.
2006-10-03 11:08:22 · update #1
Move on just thank god you did not have children with this man. I know it is devastating that he did that to you and I am sorry. The best revenge is making a better person out of yourself. Acting as if this did not bother you. You might want to find a lawyer or a paralegal yourself and try to get it annulled yourself. Show him you do not need him and you are happy to be by yourself. There are so many other fish in the sea. It is not worth worrying about him when he is a selfish person who could not give you an explanation on why he left. He is a coward.
2006-10-03 11:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldnt you want to get an anullment??? He walked out on you,,and hasnt bothered with you at all. I just dont understand some females these days. I think you should defiantley get an anullment,,,and find someone who will be there for you and love you the way you are suppose to be loved. Why settle for less when you can have more? Dont wait around for a man who dont even want you. Thats not attractive at all. Arent you a better peson than that? Get some self esteem and get a D I V O R C E.
2006-10-03 10:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to your husband and find out whats going on. It makes no sense to get married and then decide to just leave your spouse. Also, why didn't he come to you and tell you about the annulment himself - why did his dad tell you?
You need to talk to him and if he confirms that he wants out, your best bet is to just leave things be, get an annulment, and move on with your life.
2006-10-03 10:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on is the best thing you can do for yourself and your husband. If he has abandoned you as you say his word and the commitment to you was worthless. You don't want a man like that in your life. You deserve better. Besides, if he did come back now you'd be faced with nagging doubts about him that would eventually drive you apart anyway.
2006-10-03 10:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, this guy, although he must have been great, or else you wouldn't have married him, he sounds like a skeez-bag. Every woman deserves someone who loves and respects her. If he's doing this kind of stuff, he definitely doesn't respect you. I hope you realize what a wonderful and special woman you are, regardless of how he treats you. Find yourself some arm candy for a little while. Good luck!
2006-10-03 10:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by DefyGravity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has abandoned the marriage.Shocking but you need to file yourself for divorce and move on.Be glad you found out he wasnt a man early.
2006-10-03 10:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer. Get help and advice from a professional. You're being seriously messed around .
2006-10-03 10:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY EASY!!!!! He is either afraid that he made a mistake in marrying you OR he is still very immature; GET THE ANNULMENT.
2006-10-03 10:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by FLATTOP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's over for him. I suggest u stop hanging onto something that doesn't exist anymore and move on with your own life.
2006-10-03 10:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not coming back hunny so quit waiting...Go get a lawyer and file for divorce..
2006-10-03 10:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋