Family & Relationships - 22 September 2006

I'm not talking sex,I'm talking about love how many people do you think will meet in your life that you would spend the rest of your life with.

2006-09-22 04:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by Sonny 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so here is the deal. I have been dating this girl for around 4 months now and I can honestly say that I have never loved anyone more than I love her. She is a very sweet, innocent girl. Anyways two weeks ago she told me that she had been raped earlier this year. It happened around January of this year. She had wayy to much to drunk and was raped by an aqueintance of hers. Prior to this incodent she had only done very minor sexual things. She did not tell anyone because she was afraid of what people would think and whatnot. I am having a very hard time dealing with this. I keep telling her that she A. needs to tell her parents B. needs to go to counseling and C. needs to go to the police. How do I convince her to do these things? I just am very upset because I know this terrible thing happend to her and i cant do anything about it. I just want to know what i should do? I would appreciate anyones imput on this, including those with experience or professional opinions. thanks

2006-09-22 04:35:49 · 27 answers · asked by tonyG528 1 in Singles & Dating

my best net frnd had proposed me and i said yes to him bcoz he is an excellent person and i couldnt say no,i liked him as a gr8 frnd...and said him yes thinking i may go along wid him.but somewhere deep down in my heart i like another guy 4m last 4 yrs. but havent said to him dis bcoz i think i am quiet fat and not suitable for him.and now i cant ditch my net bf! plzz tell wat 2 do? just carry on??

2006-09-22 04:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The bed has always been the best but doing stuff in different places in the house is crazy sexy. Anyone agree???


***I'm Really Bored @ Work!!! =)***

2006-09-22 04:34:55 · 30 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

PLZ HELP ME!!!!!! IM WAY TOO TOO NICE!!! AND I JUST CAN'T SAY NO TO MY FRIENDS IM AFRAID TO HURT THEIR FEELINGS!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-22 04:34:34 · 16 answers · asked by Kristen L 2 in Friends

2006-09-22 04:34:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If u've evr been n love or r n love, plze respond 2 this. tell all the details if u wnt

2006-09-22 04:33:57 · 3 answers · asked by Jeanette (juh-net) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 04:33:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got engaged and we are planning the wedding for next september. The guest list will be 100-150 people long, and I'm trying to get an estimate of how much this whole thing is going to cost us. Any input would be greatly appreciated.

2006-09-22 04:32:57 · 21 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Weddings

parrenting. Look all I said was that I didnt want to be with my boyfriend that I am engaged to and that I was proposed to by a friend and I didnt know what to do because I feel obligated to be with my boyfriend because I have a child with him. I realy would rather be with the other guy and no I have not been cheating on my boyfriend with him so I dont know why he would want to marry me but I believe him. I realy dont want to hurt my boyfriend but I would rather be his friend and nothing more. I have talked to my friend about our problems and she said she wouldnt want to marry him anymore either but I just feel so guilty. I tell him all the time that I dont want to be with him and he just ignores me. He will just change the subject so how can I talk to him about this. I have just given up. I do want to ge tmarried I mean I have kids and I want them to have a mother and a father but why should I marry someone that makes me misserable? I know you can be ingaged for a while

2006-09-22 04:31:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have noticed this guy in he is the class head and so naturally popular ; constantly looks at me since two months.even my friends noticed that after i told them. i went forward and asked him if he had a problem he was a bit scared and so denied it totally . i anyways told him to just stop staring at me.he didnt improve even a bit and went ahead and told all about this to his group now his group has started noticing me and are always looking at me and whispering things between themselves even in his absence. they are making life hell for me.

2006-09-22 04:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by Rachna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sugar Daddy is a man who has relations with a women who is in a relationship(dating or married) and the man pays her rent, car note and gives her money if she needs it............The man gets to have his fun and treats her "very well" and she gets anything she wants..........with no strings other than fun

2006-09-22 04:31:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and also cute?

2006-09-22 04:30:41 · 15 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 04:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by Abby 1 in Friends

....have you ever woke up the next morning and not remembered what you did the night before, and spent the rest of the day being to scared to find out..? when you did find out,...were you embarrassed, or relieved..?

2006-09-22 04:30:25 · 18 answers · asked by juslookin 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old male virgin. This is not a choice I've made, moreso a subject that does not come up very often. I have the choice of having sexual intercourse with a girl I somewhat know. We've been together before (3 times), but have not had sexual intercourse. She lives fairly far away, and this would be a one night stand. Am I making too big of a deal about sex? Or should I save it for a meaningful relationship?

2006-09-22 04:30:19 · 49 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for a couple of years now. I love him more then anything in the world. I go to sleep and waking up and he is the first thing on my mind. But things have change on his end. He nevers have time for me or anything anymore. He says he loves but it is not love to me. I need to move on but everytime I start to he comes back and all the feelings start up again. Please help and let me know how I can move on.

2006-09-22 04:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by JUSTME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy does it to hard will I bleed??

2006-09-22 04:28:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-09-22 04:27:30 · 20 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never been one to cheat or do the whole one night stand thingy. So would id be strange for me to just do the whole "Wham Bam thank ya maam"????

2006-09-22 04:27:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-22 04:26:53 · 21 answers · asked by september_serenade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i keep loosing contact with an old b/f but now we are reunited. i am really feeling him what should i do?

2006-09-22 04:25:46 · 12 answers · asked by winniedapooh 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-22 04:25:25 · 22 answers · asked by Biraj 1 in Friends

My girlfriend is having sexual problems where she can't get wet enough for sex. She has always had this problem so we just started using lube which works fine. I was just wondering if this was a normal problem for women to have. She is only 27 and suffers from yeast infections occasionally.

2006-09-22 04:24:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i need an opinion on love spells. i have a friend who is really in love with this guy and he claims that he loves her too. they cant be together because of religion. she is considering a relationship spell. do these things really work?

2006-09-22 04:23:41 · 21 answers · asked by princess*gina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm usually attracted to older men, and I don't mean 2 or 3 years older. Do you think that there is a psychological explanation for this? You see, because I never grew up with any men in my house my friens think that I am attracted to older men because I see them as a father figure. Is this possible and if so, is it unhealthy?

2006-09-22 04:23:39 · 32 answers · asked by skunk_luv 4 in Singles & Dating

A male co-worker has come to work with different bruises and cuts on several occassions. He even had his should dislocated at one time, but the crazy thing about it is he keeps going back to his abusive girlfriend. He tells us that the reason she does this is probably because of the way he used to treat her when they first got together. Not only is she abusive physically but verbally as well? Is there more to this than what he's saying? why does he tolerate this. there's another twist to this, he's currently dating someone else, but always goes back and forth between his current and old girlfriend. what's the deal with my friend?

2006-09-22 04:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m in my first interracial relationship and I think im falling for this guy… he wants to meet my parents but im not sure what my parents will say…. Anyone been through this b/f? What did you tell your parents? How did they take it? what did your friends say?

2006-09-22 04:23:09 · 8 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

How many times a month does your husbands x call?
My husbands x calls about 30 times a month...is this unusuall and should i be upset about this?? They do have children 11 and 9 yr old.

2006-09-22 04:22:22 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why is being single not so bad? pros of being alone?

2006-09-22 04:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2 in Singles & Dating