I have been seeing this guy for a couple of years now. I love him more then anything in the world. I go to sleep and waking up and he is the first thing on my mind. But things have change on his end. He nevers have time for me or anything anymore. He says he loves but it is not love to me. I need to move on but everytime I start to he comes back and all the feelings start up again. Please help and let me know how I can move on.
2006-09-22 04:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by JUSTME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if he was your sould mate then you woudln't be asking this question...just give it time...Time heals all wounds and thats probably the best advice you will get....But ignore him..talking to him and worrying about him only will make things worse...so move on and don't talk to him.
2006-09-22 04:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Find ways to occupy your time. Take yoga lessons, spend time @ the beach, go to the library and stock up on good books but most of all work on yourself. If you've been slacking in the gym, go for it, powerclean your house or something, take that trip you've been putting off. Finding yourself is being happy whether you have that soul mate or not. So @ the end of all this when you're in the best shape of your life and feeling good, guys will be all over you.
...you'll have great abs & a really clean house
2006-09-22 11:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by dre & ani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously , he is not your soulmate. Your soulmate is someone you will be with until your soul rests in peace. Let it go and move on it might be the best thing for you
2006-09-22 11:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very RARE to find a LASTING soulmate... sometimes you have to accept that people come in our lives for that PERIOD OF TIME only!!! ...people change and not always for the better. you have to move on with your life. god has other plans for you, that's all. he's not the only man out there. good luck... it just wasn't meant to be!
2006-09-22 11:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married 8 and a half years and my husband and he left me for no reason, and i have been in the mental hospital for a nervous breakdown and he never called me , we were inseperable the whole time and he worshipped the ground i walked on and he was madly inlove with me and i him, we were so inlove and we lived beside his mom and dad all those years and she started alot of crap about me cheating on him and because i lost weight and with my husbands permission i got a tattoo, and his mom started the crap and he left,i dont think you ever get over get over it, i havent yet this far, if you want to talk get intouch with me at lizz_wv2000@ yahoo.com
2006-09-22 12:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by lizz_wv2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to move on...the ONLY way, is to do it. That means do NOT see him or talk to him anymore until you are over him completely. There is NO other way to do it. Accept it's over, and start fresh.
2006-09-22 11:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to realize he ISN'T your soulmate. A soulmate is someone who loves you as much as you do them.
2006-09-22 11:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds selfish lay down the law and tell him the way you want it done if he dont agree then try to move on..good luck!!
2006-09-22 11:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..."he" is not your soulmate,...if "he" was, you would'nt be asking for help in your relationship...
2006-09-22 11:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by tiny dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋