Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

I have a little brother who is off in college. He has a ruck that recently broke down. We have a cousin that attends this same school and lives together with my brother. They have ALL their classes together and come home on the weekends together. Yesterday my brother asked me could he drive my car back to school. I asked why he cant ride back to school with our cousin. So he gets mad and I went back to bed. I heard my dad tell him to go ahead and drive my car on back to school. Now I'm making the car payments on my car by myself. No one is helping with this car but everyone wants to drive it like it's theirs. I had a baby 2 weeks ago and I know I have to take him to his 2 week checkup this week. Now my father comes in yesterday telling me that I was wrong and he can drive my car back because we are all taking turns letting him go back to school each week. Now I moved back here in April because my parents CONVINCED me to because this is my first child. I cant take it no more. HELP!

2006-09-12 06:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not sure if this is okay. Is it okay to introduce myself or ask that person "What's your name?" to a person in my class at all? How are you suppose to overcome your fear of talking to new people? I know I feel very uncomfortable talking to new people. Please help.

or like to start small talk like "What time is it?" then start off introducing myself or what? What is the best way to get a person to become your friends?

2006-09-12 06:00:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After years of talking about it - and dreaming about it - we finally brought another man into our bedroom to have sex with my wife.
We are adults - it was a mutual fantasy.
Overall - the experience was "ok". Both my wife and I got some wild fantasies fulfilled. He ended up sleeping alone with her in our room ovenight - they had sex 5 times total. When he left the next morning -my wife and I agreed, we would not do it again.
She admitted she could never get comfotable with him - she thought she could just "have sex" - but realized she needs some emotions involved there too. Also his size made her more sore than anything else as well. She IS glad she got to feel that.
OK ...
The guy - wont leave us alone now! He calls every day, he showed up at our house last night (expecting he could just sleep with her again)
We explained nicely it was just a one time thing for us, but he does not get it .
In all our planning this was 1 thing we did not expect.
How do we get rid of him?

2006-09-12 06:00:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 06:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by tide 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby is overseas until christmas. I had a baby four days before he left. Thankfully he came home when she was six months to see her and I. He will be home soon. How about you all? What is your story of a loved one overseas? When do they come home?

2006-09-12 06:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-12 06:00:07 · 3 answers · asked by miss perfect 1 in Family

white... hear alot of this.. and been in several of them.. even in one now.

2006-09-12 06:00:03 · 8 answers · asked by pandrous05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And it’s unrealistic to think that you’re ever going to get to a point where you’re never frustrated..

2006-09-12 05:59:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 05:59:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with this guy a long time ago, and I got really attached to him, practically falling in love. About three years later, he moved on with his life and got married, and I started going out with someone else. A week ago I was told by a mutual friend that he got on a certain internet chatline, and I got on there to find him, only to discover that he would soon be divorced, and his situation wasn't working out. He is depressed and I want to help him, but he hates me, so I lied to him and told him I was someone else to get his trust. Problem is he's getting attached. What should I do? Was that right? Should I tell him the truth? Or is this game gonna do me any good?

2006-09-12 05:58:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean if the partner never knows anything about it.

2006-09-12 05:58:29 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

jewlery... and she already has everything she could want... any cool ideas?

2006-09-12 05:58:08 · 14 answers · asked by Lipstick 4 in Family

cheered up! Could be long-ish or short stories. Here's something I found hysterical: A friend told me the other day, his (now ex-) wife asked him to leave for a few hours and while he was gone, she took her share of everything. She even took HALF the coffee pot (the filter parts), LOL!

2006-09-12 05:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Nobody in person was there.

Details people details get the points.

2006-09-12 05:57:35 · 14 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Singles & Dating

i work with a 54 yr old married woman.
she is very loving, but her attentions are unwanted and irritating.
she has to hug everyone, rub a pregnant co-workers belly(its unwanted ,but she is too nice to tell her!), she runs her nails along my arm. rubs backs, !!! it makes me sick. ive told her to stop. she says i need to get used to being hugged!! i say , no! u need to respect my personal space!
she stops ,then 2 days later, it starts!! isnt this sexual harrassment? to all of us?
can u send me a link that shows this specific form of it?
she isnt gay, (i dont think) just loves hugs and hugging etc.
as a child she may have been abused. but iam sorry i dont want the touches.
she isnt my husband, daughter etc or close friend. help me.

2006-09-12 05:57:18 · 31 answers · asked by grasshopper 1 in Friends

He is a huge Beyonce fan, loves labels and um...fish? Have no idea...any Beyonce buffs out there know of anything new or soemthing that he may not have???

2006-09-12 05:57:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I haul alot of my materials in this cute bag but get stares of weirdness from fellow humans and even some dogs. I feel sweaty and my stomach becomes a cyclone from ritual of nervousness. I less words, i feel a dirreah kiss in my stomach and want to go. How can i say...I feel not comfort.....I love bag and it very easy to carry instead of little wallat of departed cow skin. I carry spray that makes hair like metal....little eyeshadow for beauty that is still manly and tough....and other little things of cuteness....I cant carry all these material goods in my wallet. tee-hee! is this normal?

2006-09-12 05:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's a theory that Aquarius is not very loyal to friends, she/he may be very close to you for some time, but as soon as they meet new people they will turn their whole attention to them and put the old friendship on backburner...do you think it's real?

2006-09-12 05:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by joan_crawford_rise_again 1 in Friends

Why is this happening? We've had a great sex life for almost 20 years. We're both very healthy and still attractive. Do you think he's infatuated with someone else? We've been apart for a few months because of a job transfer and now that we're together again, this happens. Please, mature answers only.

2006-09-12 05:56:28 · 14 answers · asked by sueno 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-12 05:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by osuwasmile 1 in Singles & Dating

I know both the husband and wife and it is just eating me up as to what to do in this case. She comes from a broken home, full of abuse and sexual misconduct by her parents. I see a pattern of sexual misconduct on her part as well. I think the husband needs to know, I just do not know how to approach him about her affairs. I have proof, what do you think I should do, help.

2006-09-12 05:54:56 · 28 answers · asked by moreshok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-12 05:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Dazo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 05:53:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-12 05:53:16 · 26 answers · asked by free2rhyme16933 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just Wanted my relation ends to marriage.

2006-09-12 05:53:15 · 7 answers · asked by Pirouz P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some of us would just like to have good sex for one of our lives. Does it ever happen

2006-09-12 05:53:13 · 17 answers · asked by flashypsw 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't live in a small town, but it's rather boring- suggestions please. I already have my birthday outfit picked (casual but super cute) out and I'm getting my hair done later ... just no plans yet :(

2006-09-12 05:52:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was referring to how long a couple can go "each time" they do it--not how old they are until they cannot do it. I hope this clarifies the question.

2006-09-12 05:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been divorced for almost 2 years and it was a very well lets just say bad marriage ..I will leave it at that...and since I have been divorced I have moved to another town to get totally away from him. I started a new job with the help of a friend , but i havent dated much . I cant just seem to get the right connection with anyone. Maybe I dont give it a chance. But I hear about all these dating services , e harmony and all that but it all cost it seems in some way or another, I dont feel like paying for that kind of stuff when I can think of other things to spend my hard earned money on! But does anyone have any suggestions on helping me at all. I dont know many people where I llive now .

2006-09-12 05:50:23 · 11 answers · asked by mary_marlene65 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 05:49:33 · 34 answers · asked by gotalife 7 in Family