I went out with this guy a long time ago, and I got really attached to him, practically falling in love. About three years later, he moved on with his life and got married, and I started going out with someone else. A week ago I was told by a mutual friend that he got on a certain internet chatline, and I got on there to find him, only to discover that he would soon be divorced, and his situation wasn't working out. He is depressed and I want to help him, but he hates me, so I lied to him and told him I was someone else to get his trust. Problem is he's getting attached. What should I do? Was that right? Should I tell him the truth? Or is this game gonna do me any good?
2006-09-12 05:58:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOHHH thats seems hard. i bet at first you didnt see n e harm in it after all hey of course ud do n e thing to get to talk to him again, but i bet u feel like u jus wanna be UR SELF with him,huh? well in a way it was right but now since ur in a sticky situation my advice is to wait a while still but if it jus kills u to not be honest jus make sure ur thinking straight at the time and most importantly make sure u have good back up words to why uk did what u did.
2006-09-12 06:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nina Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies never solve anything. He will not trust you even more now if he finds out it is you. You need to find a new game to play. Called honesty and humility.
2006-09-12 06:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its great that you still care but pretending to be someone else is no way to get him to like you again just tell him its really you and explain how you feel about him and maybe say your sorry for the past and see if you two can start again
2006-09-12 06:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by amanda k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let the lie to live for a long time .
just tell him the truth and leave everything for god.
don't forget tell him the reasons for you lying..
everything will be fine..
2006-09-12 06:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Arabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you even started you broke his trust again by lying to him about who you were, you should tell him the truth but dont be suprised if he doesnt want to have anything to do with you
2006-09-12 06:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he gets to know you from the inside. I bet he just can't wait to find out it was you. You better tell him before it gets any worst.
2006-09-12 06:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with fire my dear, you could get burned! Tell him the truth then walk away..you don't want to be a homewrecker!
2006-09-12 06:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so wrong! when he finds out it was you all along hes going to hate you even more! Good luck with that, nothing good ever comes from lying.
2006-09-12 06:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to get him attachet more with u and after some time tell him its u and he will love u
2006-09-12 06:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him the truth
2006-09-12 06:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋