I have a little brother who is off in college. He has a ruck that recently broke down. We have a cousin that attends this same school and lives together with my brother. They have ALL their classes together and come home on the weekends together. Yesterday my brother asked me could he drive my car back to school. I asked why he cant ride back to school with our cousin. So he gets mad and I went back to bed. I heard my dad tell him to go ahead and drive my car on back to school. Now I'm making the car payments on my car by myself. No one is helping with this car but everyone wants to drive it like it's theirs. I had a baby 2 weeks ago and I know I have to take him to his 2 week checkup this week. Now my father comes in yesterday telling me that I was wrong and he can drive my car back because we are all taking turns letting him go back to school each week. Now I moved back here in April because my parents CONVINCED me to because this is my first child. I cant take it no more. HELP!
2006-09-12 06:01:02 · 10 answers · asked by tantalizin1 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, first off this is your car not anyone else. Your dad had no right giving him permission to drive something that does not belong to him.
Tell you brother you want your car back now..then tell your parents if they can not respect your things, and privacy you will move out. If you were fine on your own then go back to that. You have a child..and there is nothing worse then having someone telling you how to raise it. Parents or not. But first thing is to get your car back. Then I would talk to my parents, and tell them just how you feel. If they can not respect that and agree with your terms then I would make arrangements to move.
2006-09-12 06:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Just another day 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you an adult? If you are not, then they can do whatever they please,.
If you are an adult than your parents have no right to do that, unless their name is on the car- even still if you are making the payments and they are not helping you then they need to respect your property. If their name is not on your car and they just gave it to your brother, then I would tell him to bring your car back or you will report it stolen. If their name is on title, then I think they legally have say in what happens to it.
I would get it back and then move out. They should not be running the lives of their adult children.
2006-09-12 13:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got what u deserved by being stupid enough to move back home. Once a child grows up and moves out he or she should stay out and fend for themselves with all of life's ups and downs. Ur car on the other hand is ur property and ur father had no business telling ur kid brother to take the car, it is ur parents responsibilty to get ur brother back to school if they still want to see him on weekends, and u r a parent too. Man do people like u get my feathers ruffled for being so damn stupid. God forbid ur brother destroyed ur car and guess who'd be stuck with the payments and repairs, not ur father or him but U !!!!! LEGALLY !!! Grow up, get out of ur parents home and live ur own life. Life never promised anyone that it would be easy, unless u r born with a golden or silver spoon. If u wanted to play grown up games and have ur own family be responsible and do the right thing for ur baby's sake and ur peace of mind, MOVE OUT NOW!
2006-09-12 13:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your car, your insurance, your name on the dotted line. It was wrong for you father to volunteer your car.
Get a job, move out. Sue the father for child support. Send your brother a card on his birthday.
Your father should have asked if it was OK for your father to borrow your car. The son could have taken his ride and your car would be in the same town you are at least, but only if your car insurance covered it.
2006-09-12 13:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move back out. And until you do, don't let your car keys out of your sight.
2006-09-12 13:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... explain to them that if they want to use the car they need to help make payments and if they bring up that you're living with them explain to them that you did it to ease their minds (even though that may not be completely true). don't let them use you whatever you do.
2006-09-12 13:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by amber_cromer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're mature enough to give birth to a child what the he** are you doing living with Mama and Papa?
2006-09-12 13:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by marie1257 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should listen to Aaron Carter i think he got a song called parents be getting on my nerves
2006-09-12 13:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will need to find ways to cope until you can become more independent.
2006-09-12 13:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
move!
2006-09-12 13:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋