2006-09-12 05:53:16 · 26 answers · asked by free2rhyme16933 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you could bribe them
like tidy your room and ill get you a nice space apple ??
(just a normal apple just call it a space apple)
2006-09-12 05:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by plum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try this: It worked for me.
Get some poker chips
Red is 100 points
Blue 50
White 25
Just for example, it can be whatever you want.
But they earn the chips and have to use the chips to buy privileges.
For example:
Tommy is kind to his sister he gets a red chip. Tommy did his homework, he gets 300 worth of chips. Tommy back talked, you take 100, Tommy did not brush his teeth yo take 100 etc. etc. etc.
But to watch a half an hour of tv costs 100 in chips, or to go to a movie is 1000 in chips, gameboy 100 chips for 15 minutes etc
It worked so well for me.
Another thing that I did in my daycare was I had two girls with ADD/ADHD if I put them in the corner etc they would just blank out. I never could get through to them. I would have them, rather than go to a timeout pull ten dandelions. Because than they were still being active. Now one of those girls is 16 and tells me how "nice" I was. Since at other daycare she felt ignored or a problem etc. or always in the corner.I have a friend that has her kids to push ups.
just some ideas
2006-09-12 06:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the age of the child, 5 and under time out and no playing around. use a strong tone. 6-10 punishment, includes no TV, computer , ipods cells no fun at all and be consistent . and if they are really out of control there is nothing wrong with a healthy a#ss whipping trust me your not gonna kill them, know if they are teens and are out of control you have to really step up your parenting skills because today's' teens have no respect for authority or there parents i say straight kick your teens a#ss when they get in your face or try talking s#hit your the parent and the only one that should be doing anything that's out of control so set your ship a sailing and get those kids in order
2006-09-12 06:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what kind of "out of control" you are talking about. I have several things that work with my kids - like when they fight with one another (I mean fight like punching, hitting, etc), I make them sit on the stairs and HUG EACH OTHER! I also make them go run laps in the cul-de-sac when they are too hyper, or walk up and down the stairs for 5 to 10 minutes at a time (boy does that calm them down). I have a couple of other tricks that work, but need more details as to your problem...
2006-09-12 05:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by mamafence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by out of control. Hurting you out of control or jail out of control. Or just not listening out of control. SOme out of controls are minor. But if it is the other 2 above reasons, Military school. Works every time.
2006-09-12 05:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your kids are out of control, the problem is YOU, not them.
The real question is, how are YOU going to change to prevent this behavior in the future and how much work are you willing to put in now, to correct the mess you made up to this point?
Answer THAT and you will have a solution.
2006-09-12 05:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you are consitant with your rules and if not that is a good start but it depends how old they are you may want to send them to military school for a little while but if they our young you can make a naughty chair and everytime they do not listen they have to go there and stay there unil how ever old they are if they are 3 they stay there for 3 minutes and if you have to give them a spank if they need one but if you do not agree with that try the time out chair but the most important thing is that you are consitant with your rules and do what you say do not say that they will go in the naughty chair if you are not really going to put them there cause that they make them not listen and make your children watch nanny 911 and say see that is they way you look sometimes when you do not listen to me IT WORKS FOR ME i have 4 year old and a 1 year old and that works with my 4 year old.
well good luck
2006-09-12 06:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen "Super Nanny"? It's a great show and there is a lot of very helpful information given. Check it out!
2006-09-12 05:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're older, send them to boot camp. If young, just ignore them when they try to get your attention. Put them somewhere that they can't break anything (Like timeout) If all else fails, BEAT THAT A*S!
2006-09-12 05:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by J-Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a spanking. It worked for me and I don't consider myself abused. In fact, I'm a better person for it because it taught me there are consequences to my actions.
2006-09-12 05:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with them.Talk to them.Don't try to suppress them.Get their confidence first then they will understand you better.And only then they will properly listen to you and become good.Lot of patience required here.
2006-09-12 05:58:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋