Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

My girlfriend insisted i get a myspace, well i sign up for one and I get this mysterious friend add, its this woman that is 32 i am 25 and she sais she has a big crush on me and wants to meet. I work at walmart and she sais she comes there looking for me everyday... i thought i would give her my number my girlfriend got really mad but i figured she would get over it i told her i was just playing along with the woman but she tells me that if i didnt care about this person then i wouldnt bring it on I dont see why she is jealous and mad it is just a joke.

2006-09-05 21:02:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He was pretty cute/charming our first 5 dates and then BAM he walks in for our 6th and now I can't stop thinking about him.

2006-09-05 21:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm starting life at UCSB in two weeks and I would like to get into some kind of serious relationship while I'm there but I've heard that people don't like to get into close relationships (romantic or friendship). Is this true?

2006-09-05 20:58:45 · 7 answers · asked by whiteplum 2 in Singles & Dating

I would say, till she gets the western VISA STAMPED on her passport. Many American got SUCKERD & a friend of mine too & i just keep laughing at him coz i warned him .

2006-09-05 20:58:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 20:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by Natalie J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 20:56:40 · 29 answers · asked by cowbag 2 in Family

a ) I'm fat
b ) I'm normal
c ) I'm slim
You see I'm 12 . My height is 167 cm . My weight is 32 kg . What do you think am I attractive or am I too overweight too be true . For I'm going to a class party dance at my friends home and my crush is there he is so cute so I wanna look good .

2006-09-05 20:54:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 20:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by pretty_dafodil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It always seems to happen doesn't it?

2006-09-05 20:54:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he always winks at me when my boyfreind is there or whispers things to make things worse we all live together

2006-09-05 20:52:19 · 21 answers · asked by little one 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 64 yes it is hard to meet an american women so what country and how young should I go where they will stick with me.

2006-09-05 20:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I keep getting lots of Russian Chicks e.mails of that sort, but i'm not a SUCKER*** !

2006-09-05 20:51:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a male 38 and I live in Burnley I since I split up with my ex find myself in a position that I am now basically left on my own, I need some good mates either male or female and I want to meet someone who is decent so I can have a long term relatioship with if anyone is interested e mail me

2006-09-05 20:50:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

completely straight

2006-09-05 20:49:35 · 16 answers · asked by Natalie J 1 in Friends

2006-09-05 20:46:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanna know how much money do u normaly spend each month!? spacially if u have no kids!?

2006-09-05 20:46:15 · 13 answers · asked by Musty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 20:45:07 · 20 answers · asked by may 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so here's my story... Short version, cuz its getting late... Basically my mom has disowned me for the past year or 2, and its like she's trying to bring my whole family (dads side) down, not just ending her relationship with him. She stopped talking to me mainly cuz she knows i'm siding with my dad, its really sad when you think about it, but the truth is I dont want a relationship with her anymore anyway. All I know is this has been going on for almost a year since she served my father, and nothing has happened yet, unfortunately everyone is still living in the same house... Dad sleeps in his office (in the house) on a fold-a-way bed... That's also his kitchen. He lives out of that one room... I hide in my room, and thats the only room I use, its horrible... Let me tell ya some of the stories about my mom, and then you can formulate your own opion, I think it can speak for itself.

1) I'm gonna start from the beginning here, from when we stopped talking. About 1 1/2 years ago, I lost my mom's cell phone. I apologized to her, but honestly could not afford to just run out and get her a new one either, so there really wasnt much I could do except truly apolgize. Well, I did offer to get a new one within the month, but that wasnt good enough for her. My dad then told both me and my mom, that if this was her attitude then I shouldn't replace it at all, and also it was technically dads phone since he paid for all the lines on the family plan. Mind ya that mom never used the phone anyway, it was always turned off, and usually never charged. But she wanted to prove her point, so for the next several months thats all I heard from her, since I never did replace it. Like my dad said, it would have been a waste of money. Honestly, even before that we had a strained relationship, but not to the point where we didnt talk.

2) Fast foward to her birthday, a few months later. I was working that day. She knew I was going to be working and told me not to worry about taking off, that we'll do something another day or whatever. Well, before I left, she was bitching about something, I dont even know, but I left my gift on her bed. When I came home that night, I found out she had a temper tantrum like a 2 year old cuz my dad decided to do the cake the following night when I'd be home, and also cuz it was the wrong kind of cake, cuz she had gallbladder problems and couldnt have fat. And I was an inconsiderate ***** to even think about buying it for her. I told her that the following year I'll buy her a salad, and write happy F-ing birthday with the fat-free dressing... I mean, please.... First off, I thought she could have some fat, just not overdo it, I didnt know it had to be a fat free. And any normal considerate mother, would have just said, "THanks for the thought, but I really shouldn't be eating that, you guys enjoy it." or something to that effect, or maybe offer to go out and pick out something else that she can have, but no she has to act like a 5 year old instead. Needless to say, her gift was back on my bed, still unopened. Unfortunately I threw out the reciept, so I couldn't return it, but instead just kept it for myself.

3) Now all this above was still almost a year before she served my dad, but I think even back then she was talking about it, and knew she was going to divorce him, so thats the whole point. She brainwashes my sister into thinking that my father is a POS and a deadbeat dad, and all she does is curse him out in front of her. She's only 15. MEanwhile, my mom will be bitching/cursing my father out, and my sister is right beside her cheering her on... How can you do this to your 15 y/o daughter???

4) Now more recent. Too many stories in between. But I think your starting to get the idea. Anyways, my cousin's wedding was a few weeks ago. I was soooo scared cuz I was afraid she was going to have some sort of outburst there and start a scene cursing at my father or something, and I was honestly really surprised that nothing happened. THat is until my father got a call from my uncle the next day. Now to backtrack, my mom was bitching about needing money for a hotel, etc since it was in NJ, and we're in NY (still only a 3 hour drive, and me and my dad did it w/o hotel, but whatever) for about 2 months prior. My dad just ignores her when she starts, but in the end gave in since it was the only way my sister could go. MY mom said she couldnt afford to go otherwise, and she wouldnt let my father take my sister out of state, so it was the only way she could go. So anyway in the end, my dad gives her 200 for gas/tolls/hotel, etc. So what does she have the nerve to do we find out??? SHe put $25 in the card, thats right 25, w/ a nasty note saying what a POS husband he is for not giving her more money. Now the whole reason why she wanted to go to wedding was to not let my cousin down, please......

4 or 5 what am i up to???) Some of the things she comes up with that are all lies anyway are really starting to scare me, cuz my dad could go to jail for them. I know the case will go to a judge eventually, cuz my mom is going to fight and fight until the end. Now you go to court and its her and my sister who will be testifying for my mom (although like my boss said, they dont usually involve the children on the stand, but my dad says she might, shes almost 16, actually she will be 16 by then, the court date right now is sept. 18, her b-day is on the 6th) and then me testifyng for my dad. It's her word against ours. I mean, what if the judge takes her side, since theres no way of proving it really one way or anohter. My mom is really good at putting on a front esp. if she can get something out of it. (sidenote just the other day she was bitching for about an hour straight before she realized my dad wasnt even home... HEr reaction?? "You mean I was yelling and bitching all that time for nothing, the POS didnt even hear me???" Yeah, priceless.... It shows her true colors... Anyway, some of the things shes accusing him of:
- Physically abusing her. I mean thats so easy to "prove" its ridiculous. All ya need to do is have a bruise from something else, and noone can tell where it came from, and besides courts always side with the mothers.
- Not providing food for my sister - First off, my dad does keep food in his office and he locks it when he's not home, hence why my mom is complaining. However, theere is another room called a KITCHEN!!! Besides everytime my dad offers to cook for her its either "Yuck i dont like that" or "im on a diet" - please shes 16 years old. She won't eat a burger cuz it has too much fat, but she doesnt think anything of eating an entire box of oreos cuz sometimes you gotta cheat, so whatever...
- porn on computer - Now my moms trying to accuse him of being a micheal jackson cuz some gay porn somehow got on there a few years back.. He said he did not download it and it probably came as part of a virus from aol cuz he used to get a lot of crazy emails. He stopped using aol and hasnt had any problems since. He also said this porn was in one of my moms folders, so very possible she did it to plant it against him.

She has also said numorus things against my uncle and my grandmother, including wishing death upon them. MY grandmohter is 75 years old, nearly deaf/blind, wheelchair bound, diabetic, evertying, but shes a "hopeless ***** that wants everyone to wait on her hand and foot". SHe says her mother is an angel cuz she always worked 3 different jobs to support family. Oh please!!!!!!!!!!!! BTW, i dont talk to her side of family at all anymore cuz they're all the same way.

She also wants to get my uncle/grandma supbeonad (sp?) for all the money my dad borrowed against them or whatever. LIke my dad said, is this a divorce case or a criminal case???? BUt with all the things my mom is accusing him of, it could very well be both.

Has anyone else been through such a nasty divorce... I really need advice. I feel soo depressed lately. And yes, that was the short version, lol.... I could go on and on, believe me.

2006-09-05 20:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by Emily 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a big flirt and I like him.

2006-09-05 20:44:35 · 13 answers · asked by Roo 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend love me and he's not happy with his wife. for sure.. he loves his children and divorce will hurt his children.. im confused.

2006-09-05 20:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know it has to do with maturity

2006-09-05 20:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 20:43:07 · 12 answers · asked by uptown girl 2 in Family

2006-09-05 20:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by don_yourmate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he's a singeer he sings sexy love

2006-09-05 20:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by Dev C 1 in Family

2006-09-05 20:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we r good friends since 6 years

2006-09-05 20:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by pratima m 1 in Friends

My crush loves movies, games and music but he never tells anyone that he can sing!
Now you ppl have known his interests so pls give me some good answer.

2006-09-05 20:36:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have feelings for two guys,let's name them Duaeyn and Paolo..

I'm close to Duaeyn and I know that he already love a person,let's name her Jessa.. but Duaeyn is not courting Jessa because Jessa has strict parents.. one time,I asked him"Who will you choose?the one you love?or the one who loves you?"then he answered,"the one who loves me because its easy to love somenody"..but he didn't know that I have feelings for him..
But on the other hand, I'm not close to Paolo but I know that he is not yet loving someone because he's prioritizing his studies first before love..

What will I do?

2006-09-05 20:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by Purps.. 2 in Singles & Dating

he lfet me and turns up ever now and then. i told him i dont want to be friends as its too hard...why would he do this??does he still have feelings for me? or why else would he do this? i still love him. what can i do about this situation?i still wana be with him

2006-09-05 20:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 20:29:30 · 17 answers · asked by ziead 1 in Friends