I am 64 yes it is hard to meet an american women so what country and how young should I go where they will stick with me.
2006-09-05 20:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't think it is only the gals from the Philippines that are looking for the american dollar and the visa. this is a comon practice in a great many nations. If you can't find a good woman in your own territory then it is even more difficult to find a good one other places. I live in SE Asia and see you guys come here and find the perfict little Asian girl. Then i meet them later and hear their stories abut how they lost everything they had. the culture is very different here than where you are and I doubt if you would even begin to understand how people here think. I have been here 14 years and still am learning new tricks all the time. I do make an effort to learn and that has helped a lot. The thing that still bothers me is the fact they can lood you in the eye and lie constantly and make a person want to believe them. They are very good at it. They do the same to each other but being raised here they know what is what and know how to deal with it. We do not understand the little suttle ways they have. I am not saying you can't find soeone. What I wnt you to understand is that these people do think very different and their valuse are very different. Never trust any person from another culture until you know enough about them to know when they are being honest. That is not easy. I have seen so many come here and loose everything they have saved and worked for all their lives believing that she was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I keep hearing them say, but she is different. Then later they find that she is not. If you can take the time to visit Asia or any other nation you think you might find someone to be with. Be sure to really pay attention to what is around you. Now that said I will say there are many gals from other lands already in the USA and know something about the ways of your culture. You probably would have better luck near home than over here. I do live with a Thai woman and have for over ten years. I met her the first time in1968 in the States. She is nearly my age and does have a very good income. She does not need me to suport her and also she can travel to the USA at any time she wants to. She has citizenship in both lands. I have been working and dealing with Asian people for over fourty years so I did know a few things before ariving here to live. I will not tell you not to look for a woman to be with I just want you to understand dealing with someone from another culture can be very trying and many times costly. Good luck to you.
2006-09-05 22:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Columbia...Christian community. My son married a woman from there and she is extremely devoted to him even though her first 5 years with him were HELL. Perhaps a woman in her mid thirties....South American or countryside Mexican with little family.
2006-09-06 03:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anna C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature of the beast...take up golfing instead. With all that money you will save, you could play on a mean course!
2006-09-06 03:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by angleheart20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be of friend first with your prospective wife,..citizenship is not the basis!....
try being the best husband for one then for sure whatever citizenship your 'wife' is, she's stick with you!...
just bear in mind the old saying and it also applies in marriage..."do not do unto others what you do not want others do unto you!"....
'hope you'll find your true love soon! god bless!
2006-09-06 04:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by eaaangg... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u'r looking for a steadfast partner try China or India.
2006-09-06 03:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by joseph s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all filipinas are like that. search for a girl that is not half your age maybe a woman of her 40's and 50's. its not how young, its how true will they be to you.
2006-09-06 03:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Magnificent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 45-55 from South africa
2006-09-06 04:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by booby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY GETTING OUT OF THE HOUSE DUDE. NOTHING BETTER THAN A WOMAN FROM GOOD OLE USA. TRY YOUR OWN AGE PLUS OR MINUS A COUPLE YEARS.
2006-09-06 04:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are the same and you need to think maybe they left you for a reason so you need to find out why they left you and don't do it again..
2006-09-06 03:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they'll always leave you because it's obvious that you're desperate and easy to play.
2006-09-06 03:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by feisty_wun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋