he lfet me and turns up ever now and then. i told him i dont want to be friends as its too hard...why would he do this??does he still have feelings for me? or why else would he do this? i still love him. what can i do about this situation?i still wana be with him
2006-09-05 20:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sigh... :) i feel for u honey... i really do....
im going through the same thing right now with the guy i love too...
he told me he didnt want to be with me anymore....
and now he is back again....
there were several times when he mentioned wanting to break up with me but couldnt pull through with it, and kept coming back....
what i noticed about him, is that he tends to act out of impulses, it was later that i understood it was because it had to do with the family that he came from. Sometimes he has no control. But the fact that he kept coming back and still wanted me there, despite differences showed me that there is love.
Im sure each situation is different so you need to think about yours carefully.
He could either be with you because he still loves you, or it could just be that he was so used to having you around in a certain way and just wasnt really able to move on from it.
If you both were very close and dreamt of future plans and so forth.. then maybe there is still love....
You also need to think of why he left you..
was it for no reason at all...
was it because you hurt him....
all those factors play a role.... to determine if he still loves you....
just for the record.. my guy and i are back again...
i hope it works out this time....
and i hope it works for u too =)
2006-09-05 20:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. He left you. He has some problems of his own, actually. Believe me. A friend of mine did the same thing to his gal too (the girl was my friend). He left her for another girl, but still continue to call her or SMS her. It makes the ex confused. It is not a good thing to except him bec he doesn't even know what he really wants. Give some space to it now first. If he is really for you, one day it will happen. Both of you need some time to cool down first. The better thing to do is to sit down and discuss the matter. Then decide later. You know him better than i do. Good luck!
2006-09-06 03:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means
He's just horny becareful.
It not safe to be close to him if you still love him
Because if he feel in his head he can have a chance
To do it with you he will I am sorry
He do not respect you
He can not even respect what you say when you say
"i dont want to be friends as its too hard"
He left you once he will do it again
One time shame one him
Two times shame on you
I wish the best for you
Peace!!!
2006-09-06 03:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to keep you hanging on, it boosts his ego and also to check up on you in case you get over him and get another man. Next time he comes around tell him you don't want to see him fullstop.
2006-09-06 03:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by AusPixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and tell him to do the same. If really necessary...there is always a restraining order.
2006-09-06 03:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by iraq51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe now he regrets leaving you and is realizing how he made a big mistake!!! you know the saying..."you never know what you've got until it's gone!"
2006-09-06 03:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by *H-town's finest* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Let me see... OK! He just want to be your friend. But he doesn't love you anymore. Just that!
2006-09-06 03:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left u...? it's hard to forget tht for good.
2006-09-06 03:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋