my boyfriend love me and he's not happy with his wife. for sure.. he loves his children and divorce will hurt his children.. im confused.
2006-09-05 20:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you freakin' retarded? Of course he's going to say he's not happy with his wife, he wants you to feel sorry for him so you'll keep on giving. You're the other woman, and chances are that if she knows about you, you're the problem and so is he. Perhaps he has had a history of cheating...and granted if she keeps taking him back she's an idiot as well...but...I think that you should get out of this drama filled mess asap for your own health! Especially since there are children involved, take it from me, crazy ex's aren't fun to deal with. Let him do what is best for his kid's and stop being so selfish. Next time you fall for a guy make it someone that doesn't have a wife and kids.
2006-09-05 20:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound horrible to you, but it sounds like he might not leave her. It might be for the kids sake, or he might just not want to have the stigma of divorce, or he might still love his wife even though he's not necessarily happy. You need to try to move on. If he really loves you, he will find a way to make things work with you without tearing his kids apart.
Be careful; this is NOT a safe situation to be in. You should distance yourself as much as possible from this, both physically ane emotionally.
2006-09-05 20:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!!!! I don't know if i should answer this or not, Im a recently separated wife of two months....read my questions that I have posted. If you are the one, and im not saying you are....but IF. I would say YOU CAN'T GET RID OF ME, because we are parents, He won't have money to spend on you because his children come first, plus look in the future, doing birthdays and graduations and weddings......so GETTING RID OF is a very strong suggestion. You need to move on and find someone who isn't married. If i ever catch my husband with his girlfriend........well um he is a man...he is thinking with his **** and You have no heart if you breaking them up. He will do it to you as well. THEN YOU will have kids with him, and he will repeat as history does. And when that happens would you wanna hear your child cry because they want mommy and daddy.....both together. MOVE ON!!!!!
2006-09-05 21:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by zeena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already hurting his children by cheating on their mother. You are having an affair with a married man and you need to stop. It is not your place to get rid of his wife, this is his responsibility before he enters into a new relationship.
2006-09-05 20:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life lady... He is not ur boyfriend, he is some1 else's husband... A guy in his rightful mind would never leave his wife n kids... Find some1 unmarried.. Itz better for ur future.. Never break a family.. The guiltness will never leave u... If u have a heart
2006-09-05 20:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, no kidding you are confused. Miss Tina J you are one sorry excuse for a woman. He's not going to leave her- he LOVES her... he just says he loves you so he can get in your pants when his wife is busy.
2006-09-05 20:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
as a parent i cant even begin to imagine some girl who thinks i love her, trting to take me away from my children. so maybe you need to find out if he actually loves you. he didnt marry his wife for no reason.
2006-09-05 20:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by fig316_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a single guy, Loser! And remember, if he can do this to his wife, he may do this to you in the future. What goes around, comes around. Believe in karma.
2006-09-05 20:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not serious, right?
that's one of the oldest lines in history because the "other woman" wants so badly to believe she is the number one choice.
he won't leave his wife if he done so already. he loves you because he has right where he wants you.
he's playin' you and you're fallin' for it. wake up. you're being layed - i mean played.
2006-09-05 20:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by feisty_wun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. It's the oldest line in history. He wants his cake and eat it too. Dump him and move on.
2006-09-05 20:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋