he always winks at me when my boyfreind is there or whispers things to make things worse we all live together
2006-09-05 20:52:19 · 21 answers · asked by little one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep. You ****** up. Guess you just have to explain to him that you don't want him. Blah blah blah. Doesn't matter. You and your boyfriend will probably break up sometime soon anyways.
2006-09-05 20:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you did make a big mistake. You need to tell your boyfriend because there is a good chance that he is going to find out. You also don't want this guy holding this over your head and playing games with you. Most importantly, someone needs to move out. This is a problem just waiting to happen again.
2006-09-06 03:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do YOU want something more? sounds like not. do you still want to be with your boyfriend? assuming yes you should tell your friend to lay off, that it didn't mean that much to you. and if he won't for the sake of your friendship plus the happiness of you and boyfriend, than tell him he has to find alternative living arrangements. naturally you might want to come clean to your boyfriend first as if your friend gets pissy and tells him first you're much worse screwed. and even see how your bf reacts first, that way maybe you don't even need to kick out your friend. and yes, that wasn't the smartest thing to do, and yes, you are in a muddy place now.
2006-09-06 03:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by fij 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, he beleives he's in control. You need to turn the tables, for one you gotta act like you don't care if your boy friend finds out and that he'll beleive you over him (even if its not true). You gotta tell him to stop or he'll have to move out ( or you will)...You just have to take control fo the situation and make the best of what you can.
2006-09-06 03:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U made a great mistake & rightly paying for it. Well now u need to handle him with tough stance. Tell him that it was just an accident & he should forget it.
2006-09-06 03:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by A Kumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was dumb. You jeopardized your health, not to mention your boyfriend's. Why would you do that? You should just fess up. The friend will eventually say something. If you did it regrettably, you should say something. It isn't worth the heartache of all involved.
2006-09-06 03:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not actually asking a question here, so I presume you're just looking for as many strangers as possible to tell you that you did a stupid thing.
Well, count me in. I feel so sorry for your boyfriend. It must suck having a girlfriend who screws around.
2006-09-06 03:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by Chasiufan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should have done that if you already have a boyfriend. This is just another one of those life lessons that you have to take something away from.
2006-09-06 03:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your bf then hurry move out before it is too late. It is a matter of time your bf will find out then you will be left with this *** hole friend of yours.
2006-09-06 04:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Roddick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to talk to him. Let him know that you still want to be with your boyfriend. And if he continues to do it, you may need to move into a place alone with your boyfriend, if possible.
2006-09-06 03:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋