I have be married for 10 years. My husband treated me like trash, calling me stupid, a bad mother, lazy, fat, oh and the best one... he said I was too fat to have sex with - I was 7 months pregnant when he said this. He knows everything better, he's an alcoholic, he is gross perveted and he left me for his 18 year old cousin, he is 37. I don't love him any more. I am in a relationship with a man who loves me for me and doesn't call me names or hurt my feelings. Why can't I get over this separation/divorce thing? Why do I hate him for dating his cousin? Yes, it's sick but why should I care? Why do I fight with him in my head all the time? He is still trying to treat me like crap but I am stronger now and I talk back and defend myself. How do I get him to understand that he asked for the divorce so he needs to treat me with respect because I'm not his "property" anymore? Help me clear my mind.
2006-09-01
07:55:37
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calichick
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Marriage & Divorce