I have tried libdo with NO results? I LOVE my husband dearly and i am very attracted to him...but i have no sex drive...help
2006-09-01 07:55:50 · 14 answers · asked by LeeAnn B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
does he flirt with you? does he make you feel sexy? sometimes you need the tease to get you feeling giddy again...
2006-09-01 07:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are myriad reasons why your sex drive may have dropped so much. After bearing children there are many hormonal adjustments in the female body. There are also many emotional, physical, and logistic factors involved. Once you became a mother your the time dedicated to the pursuit of sexual gratification was replaced by the imperative need to care for your offspring. There are many demands that need to be met. All of this is physically draining. There are small time frames in which you can dedicate to pleasing your libido. Sometimes there is a lack of coordination in which to make time for yourself and your spouse. There is also the stress factor that is created in all women when trying to raise a child and taking care of her spouse at the same time. Post-partum depression often plays a leading role in a lowered self image hence feeling ugly and undesirable. Many times the inability of your spouse to cope with the temporary woes of childbirth make it doubly hard for you to get back on sexual track.
You have to start making the adjustments necessary to get your self-esteem back to normal and your sex life back. You and your spouse need to sit down and dialog. You need to see what both of you can do to get back into the swing of things. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-09-01 08:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon I am 33 years old. I have ond 13 year old daughter, been married for 15 years dated for 5 years and just like you i have no sex drive either and i have no idea of why either. I love my husband more than anything in the world, but i just have no sex drive as well. I thought maybe it was just me falling out of love with him, but i dotn think thats it, so hopefully we together can find out why
2006-09-01 08:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by tammy3873 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only the time of your life and having 3 kids so early in life so just wait and read some good sex stories not love stories but sex stories and put on some new sexy outfits that make you feel sexy to.
2006-09-01 07:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just too tired!
Seriously though, if it is an issue, talk to your doctor. There could be underlying hormonal problems that can be addressed to aleviate the problem.
2006-09-01 07:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Amy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and ask them for some help. Maybe your Estrogen levels are down.
2006-09-01 07:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might need a side dish to liven things up
I'm on the menu if you'd like to place an order :)
2006-09-01 07:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal... it will come back... I went through this as well... mid 30's to mid 40's will be highly sexual for you... Your husband needs to find ways to turn you on.. try watching porn together..
2006-09-01 08:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sweat to bad, we all thruy stages eventually. is it physical? any change in ur periods etc? maybe its stress, any new stress factors in ur life?
hav u tried 2 masturbate? not being funny, but if u cant get urself going, maybe it is physical.
2006-09-01 08:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by mex-o-funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with you Doctor, you may have a hormone inbalance or something like that
2006-09-01 07:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Billy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋