i asked where i could find a long lost friend a while back and i found him. i havent seen him in 8 years. but he e-mailed pics of him and i think he is really cute now, i think im fallin for him big time. we were friends for 4 years and then i moved away. now im going back to see him and were going to get tatoos and just have lots of fun. the problem is, he has a girlfriend that he has been with for only 2 monts. i really like him and if he likes me back ill stay in minnesota. but i dont know how to be around him. how would you be if you just been reunited with an old friend. we were friends when we were only 6-10. now im gonna see him. the question is, should i try to get with him. i really feel so happy to see him but i need some edvice. can anyone help?
2006-09-01 07:54:38 · 20 answers · asked by laughwithashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not married anything goes!!!!!!
rape his a s s!!!!
2006-09-01 07:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by geminidrums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down girl.
Go hang out with him as a friend first and see if there are any sparks face to face. If there are, then consider going after a romance. But don't do anything till you have had some face to face time with him. You don't want to jeopardize the friendship until you know there is something else there.
The other girl that has been there two months, she may be fimly embedded in his life. Watch out for that.
2006-09-01 14:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taken, he's taken, don't try to wreck the relationship that he's in now. Its up to him if he wants to be with you on a more serious level, and then it would be his job to break up with his current. I would bring your feelings to his attention, and see if he breaks it off with this other girl to be with you. If he says he's happy just being your friend, take that, looks like you've got lots of history and can have a blast together as friends, so enjoy it while you can. If he says that he really likes you and breaks it off with his girlfriend, awesome, definitely jump on that wagon and enjoy a more intimate relationship together. If he says that he doesn't know what he wants, suggest maybe friends would be better cause you don't want to be with someone that isn't sure if they want to be with you, and then you can hope that something develops. Remember that you only live once, take that initial leap, it might be worth it and that way the wondering about how he feels isn't going to eat away at you either. hope all my scenarios help out a little...if its meant to be, it'll be!
2006-09-01 15:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you guys where just friends for a while if you both feel the same way then don't let anything stop you. But think about it you live a distance from him and if you where to get with him how would things work out? What about his current girlfriend if your away what makes you think that she wont try to be with him when your away?
2006-09-01 15:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a question....! I think you should see how it goes and if it goes good than maybe you can talk to him about it but you shouldn't bug him about it just slightly put it out there and see how it goes. Other than that just be friends with your buddy for now. I mean heck, u havent seen him in ages!?! And be yourself!
2006-09-01 14:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hurry.
Yes, you can still be friend,,, but do not pre judge his feelings...
Things are different when you were children and when you are teen agers..
Believe you me... I have that experienced... I was so in love with her...and she wih me... but when we met again.. everything was lost... With no hard feelings though
Just be yourself.. Don't dream of him... be realistic and obbserve the things around you and the events surroundng it.. You could be hurt if you will be expecting totoo much.
Good luck
2006-09-01 15:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend you would not mess up the relationship he is in with this girl he has been dating for 2 months.
2006-09-01 15:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should meet him first, don't let him know that u r crazy for him, but if u get to know that he likes u too and if u feel that there is a chemistry between u two then go and get him girl and the most important thing BEST OF LUCK! i hope you'll get him
2006-09-01 15:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by nairita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look for vibes to see if he feels the same but if he dosen't and you push the issue you may just ruin a great friendship. be careful with this and good luck.
2006-09-01 14:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by LaLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If anything just be yourself. You don't need to do anything fancy. If fact judging by your spiel he likes you otherwise he would not have contacted you. Just be careful he is not using you for some twisted mind game he may be having with his gf.
2006-09-01 15:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it to you this way. If YOU were his current girlfriend of 2 months, would you want another woman to go after him? Ask yourself that.
2006-09-01 14:57:17 · answer #11 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋