Family & Relationships - 31 August 2006

I cant find death,birth,or marriage certificates for my grand parents.

2006-08-31 15:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think it is okay for a 7 grader to make out? I met this girl that BRAGGED about making out to her friends at the mall when I was there with my boyfriend and kids.

2006-08-31 15:17:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a studio or a 1 bedroom cheap apartment in westchester asap. can any1 help me please? and please do not give me any websites that you would have to pay to search.

2006-08-31 15:17:29 · 4 answers · asked by silkydreamgirl10 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-31 15:15:59 · 16 answers · asked by snowdrop 4 in Weddings

What if my husband goes back to court to have child support refigured because he has made $10,000 less per year, every year since their divorce three years ago. We have always paid the support on time even though it breaks us financially every month. we have kept searching and hoping he would find a job that would make the child support more feasible. His ex is the type that would try and retaliate by telling the courts she only wants him see to his son every other weekend. This will devastate him and even though we cant afford the support we pay now he doesnt want to contest it because he is used to being with his son 3 to 4 days a week. Can she really do that to him even though he has never done anything wrong except for be a good father and provide the best he can for his son?

2006-08-31 15:15:30 · 11 answers · asked by cali13 2 in Marriage & Divorce

His ex-gf now works in another country & he told me they're separated. I've learned that the ex-gf is updating him of all her activities & work abroad & sending him money for support. My boyfriend is open to me & told me everything, should I ask the girl of what is really going on w/ them or is the girl only bitching?

2006-08-31 15:14:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A. Wake my man up by going down on him

B. Take a hot bath...

Or you decide what C. should be...

2006-08-31 15:14:25 · 27 answers · asked by lilmizzerica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My one-year-old has seemed to hate getting diaper and clothing changes since birth. It makes us both hate having to change him. Does anyone have tips? We dread changes now; it feels like a battle. Otherwise, we have a good time and a very close relationship since I am his only parent. Unfortunately, though, it also means that I don't have support, emotional or otherwise. It's all the more frustrating because it's such a simple, common thing that HAS to be done, and doesn't even have to take that long (though it does 'cause of the wrestling... he literaly won't be still the whole time. I've really had to practice patience.).
I appreciate your help and good ideas!

2006-08-31 15:14:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Admit it, you've see it. white women with black dudes tend to try to emulate black women, in their hair styles, fashion, the way they talk, etc. etc. etc. Whats up wit dat?

2006-08-31 15:14:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His ex-gf now works in another country & he told me they're separated. I've learned that the ex-gf is updating him of all her activities & work abroad & sending him money for support. My boyfriend is open to me & told me everything, should I ask the girl of what is really going on w/ them or is the girl only bitching?

2006-08-31 15:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was wondering if you ever loved someone but it went to waste? and did you regret loving that person? I heard a song today that mentioned love being a waste and it's sad.. because so often it's true.

"When you love someone but it goes to waste" from the song Fix You by Coldplay

2006-08-31 15:12:56 · 18 answers · asked by Tah Dah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-31 15:12:15 · 3 answers · asked by Lady Ice 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

that happend to me and i got so scared becase this guy lives in my neighborhood. i dont know what to do if he approaches me again. He was a bengaili guy. i thought musilim guys had some respect but this guy made me sick.

2006-08-31 15:12:04 · 3 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 15:11:53 · 2 answers · asked by puresatin03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

see today in 2nd period I was in a different class htan my friends and they were thinking of the funniest person in the whole wide world and my best friend said me and the guy that is also my friend said no she isn't and my best friend asked him what he had thought of my and he said I was preet and funny but my other best friend started lauging and saying owww you like her and not being my bestfriend and then he strarted to decline that he said anything about me but my other best friendknew he was joking so what I am asking is that do you think he still likes me?

2006-08-31 15:11:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when your fiance says he needs space from me and goes and lives somewhere else? He says he still loves me but when i talk to him on the phone and i say I love You he says yeah i know. Im sooo confused. I want things to work out but he wont talk to me about things.

2006-08-31 15:08:56 · 45 answers · asked by mom w/2kids 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, I know this is a no, she clearly said she wants to remain friends, and trust me, I am treating that with respect and honor. Now my question is, is she just scared like she said because we have been such good friends for a long time, or because she doesnt see me like that. If she doesnt now, will she

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Now , what would she have said she doesnt want to ruin a frienship?? Without meaning it, I asked her straight up to be honest, and I know she isnt lying. What should I do? I mean I know nothing is gonna happen in the near future, but maybe when she matures a little bit, or decides to take the risk to date me, I mean, I like her so much, and am just not ready to let her go. I know she is afraid of me breakin her heart, because she told one of her friends, that she doesnt like how many girlfriends I've had that Ive broken up with. And she really used to act like she liked me, I mean, we obviously had soemthing more than friends, but when I asked her she got scared and backed off. She also told her mom, who she is really closed to, that she is REAALY scared of ruining the frienship. What should I do?

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But, her friend asked her a few minutes ago about it, and she got all mad and said who wants to know?..and her friend said me.. and she got all mad and signed off. what should i think/do??

2006-08-31 15:08:56 · 47 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

1 of my housemates who's the mistress of the person who owns the apartment acts like she's all that. I just found out she'd also go to my room when im not home etc. By the way I'm paying her my rental every month,she'd always point at me about how i should wash a glass when i use it. But she'd throw plastic bags and cups everywhere.I've been doing my best to avoid her because I know shes provoking me and i dont want to get to the point where i might yell at her. I've been VERY considerate because i know shes the mistress of the person who owns our place. My point it, im paying my monthly rental to her and she;s acting like she can do ANYTHING just because she's the mistress of the person who owns our place.She has no respect for me and would turn on the TV really loud when im sleeping.She's giving me a headache,she's the 'Im a toughie" kind of girl. It's so hard to go home and not be comfortable with the people you live with.Have you experienced this or what is your opinion?

2006-08-31 15:08:53 · 19 answers · asked by Skitams 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or should i be nice to him? I dont care what he thinks but i keep obssesing over him, i want him out of my mind. what do i do?

2006-08-31 15:08:31 · 4 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in a band (front emsamble A.K.A pit i play "vibes") and there is a girl there that I like im 14 and she is 16 but i dont really think that matters. I want to ask her out but Im scared of rejection she is a little short but she is so hott I cant stop thinking about her I need some real practicay advice. I only have one class with her and i dont have a oportunity there.

2006-08-31 15:08:20 · 2 answers · asked by coolguycool 1 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 21 and have been in a community college for two years. I've met zero people during that time. I haven't had friends since high school, and even then, it was just a small group of people that I lost contact with after. I'm a likable guy and all, but I just don't fit in with people my age. I have absolutely no interest in partying or drinking, so I guess it's not hard to see why given that's what most 21 year olds too. I just find it really hard to relate to people my age, and I also have social anxiety disorder, for which I get treatment for but it hasn't advanced my social life at all.

Any ideas?

2006-08-31 15:07:41 · 19 answers · asked by espn79 1 in Friends

If a parent beats thier child, and doesnt care what happens that child but still insists to be called a good parent though the other parent is the one who feeds and clothes. How old does a minor have to be to choose which parent for full custody ?

2006-08-31 15:07:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This all started a year ago, when we was both in 8th grade. I started getting a crush on like guy, john. I mistakely told my best friend. One day and she went to tell him I liked him. I want him to know how i feel but not like this. For months, he couldn't never keep eye contacts or he never ever come talk to me. But strangely he keeps on doing these list of things: 1. look at me a lot. 2. Gets scared to talk around me. 3. do dumb things to get my attention. 4. His friends look at me to see if I'm looking at him. 5. get "PISSED" when I flirt with other guys. 6. I alway get the feeling that he looking at me from behind. & 7. Checks out my body with his friends. I knew from those signs, he did liked me.But I couldn't never go talk to him because both him and i feel shy together.But now, a year later, he look at me at me but more secretly. He just pass me up in the hallways.But when he in front in the classes or hallway, he do look back to see me.Do you think he still likes me? Be real.

2006-08-31 15:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by T baby 1 in Singles & Dating

1900's either Oklahoma or Kansas their last names were Salazar and Olage

2006-08-31 15:07:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if so, give an example in your life when this situation has occured...or if it hasnt occured is it possible???

2006-08-31 15:07:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-31 15:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by shar 1 in Singles & Dating

He was in California for medical tests and possible surgery when they turned his accounts off. I think he forgot to put his blog privacy settings on. I did on my blog. Before he left one of his last emails told me I was the only one for him and not to worry. He was injured in an accident several years ago, and was in a coma for 2+ months. He has been staying at his sister's house in Texas, 1500 miles away from me and his home and family. He has been trying to get into therapy and rehab and get home and back to work ever since he woke up. His son's email has been turned off by mom who is jealous of me, his brother's cell phone was disconnected because brother's wife is jealous, and his own cell phone was snitched by his sister and had to be disconnected a year ago to preclude a family feud. How can I find him without bankrupting myself hiring a Private Investigator?

2006-08-31 15:05:26 · 2 answers · asked by janiceglyngal@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok lets say u have a friend and u been knowing her for 3 years going on 4 years but u and her are friend but not like bestfriends and she goes out with the boy u like but she doesnt no u like him and lets say they break up is it ok to go out with him or is that just mean. and should i also tell that boy that i like which she is going out with she is all like if we break up im just going to go out with some other boy i wouldnt really care about it!

2006-08-31 15:03:48 · 1 answers · asked by ej109163 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 15:03:14 · 43 answers · asked by Red H 1 in Friends

And you are still young and active in sex!! Should you just remain faithful and crave for sex?

2006-08-31 15:03:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships