Family & Relationships - 30 August 2006

we're in a long term relationship, both overweight, her more than me. i've started dieting/exercising properly (was and still am playing team sports) but all i get from her is lip service saying she'll start tomorrow. i dont want to hurt her feelings, and i love her no matter what, but she's starting to not look as attractive as she used to with the extra weight. i know it makes me sound shallow and all that, but i love her dearly. i've tried coaxing her, promised her i'd buy her treats, tried scaring her about the health effects but nothing is working. i'm finding myself less attracted to her physically as i am to her mentally and emotionally. you can say what you like about me but ladies if it was the other way around you'd say the same thing. any ideas?

2006-08-30 03:39:31 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

young meaning 23 years old.

2006-08-30 03:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by Gia M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Out-side of work the girl is alright. But when we are at work, I can't stand to be around her. I've told her about thow she annoys me, but it's like she thinks im just playing with her or something.

2006-08-30 03:39:04 · 12 answers · asked by Dlover 2 in Friends

I would not want my partner in one, and I would never do it even if my partner asked me to... not for all the money in the world and I would be starving.

2006-08-30 03:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by trushka 4 in Singles & Dating

what will be the position of India after a few years.

2006-08-30 03:38:27 · 1 answers · asked by Hai Ram 2 in Singles & Dating

i was liming a real cute boy he was a great kisser every thing was going great an then he text me saying thet he feeling like a sick prevert havin a relationship with me i was heart broken and confuse because a few days a go we made out which was fun he said so to. The thing is all my friends know about it and its embrassing because all of them have the same age fella even older .and he was only 4 years older .. now real thing d=going though my mind like =i wasnt good enough for him , or he never loved me just used me but why he was real descend an prefact every boby loved him it was hard not to... hes not the type to use people... for god sake the boy only 3 girlfriends before PLEASE HELP P.s his name is Ricardo from arima,TRINIDAD

2006-08-30 03:38:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is directed at the ladies. As usual I am a man who needs help to know how to create more intimacy with My partner. Please help!!!!!!

2006-08-30 03:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by adebumbi 1 in Singles & Dating

and sooo bored, you just want to jump the next sexy person that walks by and screw the afternoon away?

2006-08-30 03:37:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My hubby never puts lids on, always puts the roll of toilet paper on upside down and can never put away food or pitchers of drinks. That's just naming a few!!!!!!!!! It's so frustrating! I wanted a husband not a son!

2006-08-30 03:37:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i met this guy once and we've been e-mailing and chatting on the phone since...its been about a month already...he wants to see me again but i'm kinda shy yet i've been thinking about him all day long....Is this love ???

2006-08-30 03:37:27 · 13 answers · asked by sweetangel1328 3 in Singles & Dating

please no rude answers !..im curious to see how you percieve yourself compared to others ,,

2006-08-30 03:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this kinda goes along with my last question, if your man was a stay at home dad, always had a meal waiting when you got home, wasnt always so good at cleaning the house, took good care of the kids, had a closer relationship with the kids than you IE they came to dad when something was wrong(heck my oldest daughter CALLED me to help when SHE GOT HER PERIOD), was always willing to drop whatever he was going at the time if the mood struck you, told you he loved you everyday, BUT had made his mistakes IE cheated and had a hard time keeping a job AND THEN found out at the AGE OF 31 that he had ADHD and that all the problems in the relationship were due to something he DIDNT know was wrong would you have given him another chance if it was found out within a couple months of the relationship ending?

2006-08-30 03:36:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know you may say pack up and leave but we have kids that are involved. Plus everything is in my name the house, cars etc and I have tried telling him to leave and that has been unsuccessful. Any suggestions?

2006-08-30 03:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by mzladyj01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-08-30 03:35:41 · 19 answers · asked by 'Dr Greene' 7 in Family

I want to pick the most romantic proposal story! Please share yours!
(My propsal was great-wouldnt have asked for anything better.Dont know how the next one can be topped!)

2006-08-30 03:35:27 · 24 answers · asked by rachey b 2 in Weddings

There is no one I can talk to but something happened recnetly that tore my world apart.
My partner and I were planning a trip , looked some info we hadabout the place we were visiting, to check for some hotels(a place close to our hearts and special to us )
In the middle of it which was in my partners bike tank bag, I discovered 4 hard core and amateur type sex DVD's, not soft porn. It was like a slap in the face and although we are ok, I cant stop analysing it when I'm alone and its tearing me apart.
He cut them straight up and said he didnt need them - I said he shouldnt if he wanted them I could accept that he wanted to watch them sometimes, and although I wouldnt really like it - I would deal with it.

He said a guy was giving them away here he was working last year, and he took a few as they were on offer as he was curious- can I believe him or did he seek them out!
I am 8 years older than him, and now doubt my appeal - I am also not a prude re sex so why did he need porn

2006-08-30 03:35:17 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

been married a long time, wanna spice things up a bit. i want to turn him on in a different way

2006-08-30 03:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by KATRINE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

over headphones. i lent him mine, he lost them, i stole his, he is mad... cos now he has none. Big argee bargee resulting in no verbal communica throughout day. Of course this irritates me cos he thinks he is right... as always. Which he is not... as always. He is gettin incredibly spoilt cos i let him have his little mood swings... but this time... i want to teach him a lesson. Ring him or stick it out..... Ladies and gents .... the decision is yours.

2006-08-30 03:34:11 · 4 answers · asked by madgal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Let it all out Chicks....pretend this is your chance to live it for real......dont hold back ....whats the worst that can happen.....you fantasize dont you??

2006-08-30 03:34:05 · 2 answers · asked by fxbeto 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

dont you realize that by not caring about someone that you will ruin there day, or even their lives.

2006-08-30 03:33:20 · 10 answers · asked by theone 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 03:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by sweetheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-30 03:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by Buster P 1 in Singles & Dating

iam have a girlfrind for 7 months and a boy friend for 2 days, should i tell her. or keep it down. HELP

2006-08-30 03:32:20 · 24 answers · asked by Giles P 2 in Singles & Dating

I have limited options, as I will most likely be the only non-adult there.
I can bring a notebook and color, or bring a book, but I still want to hear what you think.

2006-08-30 03:31:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i miss my friends dr rajeev nagpal dr satyavir singh and dr nazim ali ansari with whom i had done my dch at sn medical college agra u p in 1995 97

2006-08-30 03:31:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is the taste of "Human meat"?

2006-08-30 03:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by notyettruths 1 in Friends

They live about 20 miles apart and share time with us but sometimes they argue over silly things like who drives to pick us up.

2006-08-30 03:30:05 · 10 answers · asked by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-30 03:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know you have been subjected to thousands of them...I want to know the worst.....the stupid...the dumb...the ugly??

2006-08-30 03:28:46 · 22 answers · asked by fxbeto 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 03:27:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating