This is directed at the ladies. As usual I am a man who needs help to know how to create more intimacy with My partner. Please help!!!!!!
2006-08-30 03:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by adebumbi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU COULD TRY SEX TOYS...THEY AROUSE ME.
2006-08-30 03:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to give sincere compliments, be interested in her daily activities without being overbearing.
Do something unexpected, like send flowers on a normal day thats not her birthday for example, Put some rose petals in her bath. If you live together, help with the housework so she won't be too tired to apreciate intimacy.
Increase non-sexual touching eg hold her hands while walking in the park , increase eye contact or just plain out: ASK HER
2006-08-30 03:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by ayanagin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Day to day flirting is good. Each day a light touch on the shoulder, the waist, a kiss on the neck from behind in passing.. Each evening when you go to bed just touch your partner - softly, on the arm, the shoulder the neck. I guarantee you if you do this every night, by the 3rd or 4th night you'll have intimacy and it will increase if you continue this. Flirting (subtle flirting) always gets me.
2006-08-30 04:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a dude, but when you do things that makes her happy, she will become closer to you, because you want to make the effort to connect with her. Intimacy in women is so much more emotional, so you have to listen to her, offer advice only when asked, compliment her and make her feel like she is your world. This is the true path to intimacy
2006-08-30 03:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think intimacy increases with talk/touch/caring...ie, nothing sexual.
Talk more, care more, ask more questions, be more empathetic and sympathetic. Hold hands, read books and discuss them, go to movies and discuss them, go for walks, bike rides, eat dinner together AND TALK. In fact, cook HER dinner. Sexual intimacy is gained mentally I think...contrary to the other recs here of 'toys' and 'porn' and whatever else....I really think it is much much more mental, more psychological.
2006-08-30 09:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice?
2006-08-30 03:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by hey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion it is to seduce her outside the bedroom, be thoughtful and considerate, listen to her and show her respect, be romantic and do things to help her out and when you do get to the bedroom be caring and giving to her needs and let her enjoy being a woman~Good luck!
2006-08-30 03:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a lady, but you can try listening to her needs and making her feel like she's the only woman in the world. Masssage her back and feet before making love to her....good luck.
2006-08-30 03:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by johnavaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a lady but i can give you an advise try the kama sutra book there are a lot of good advise in there.
2006-08-30 03:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what makes her happy and wear it out. I always feel closer to someone who acts like I please him and make him happy even if it's the small things I do. Make her feel like she can let go and enjoy herself without rejection or worrying about how you will react to what she likes.
2006-08-30 03:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by seaturtle36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it when my boyfriend creates intamacy by caring for me in ways that i dont ever do for myself. like rubbing my feet after work. or bringing me breakfast in bed. or playing with my hair- just touching someones head is pretty intimate.
2006-08-30 03:43:32 · answer #11 · answered by carrie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋