Family & Relationships - 28 August 2006

I had married few months ago to a man who is 20 years older than me, whom i loved very much, but he was not serious at all and he has cheated me and ditched me. He had promised me that we would settle down in our life and there wont be any problems. We have also had sex many times. I did not tell my parents about that. I am feeling very guilty for that. Now a days we do not have any contact. I do not know where he is. how can i remove the feeling of guilt from my mind. Plz help.

2006-08-28 02:01:56 · 31 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have completely fallen in love with a co-worker who happens to be my direct supervisor. She is at the Vice-President level and I am a Director who happens to report to her. Everything about her makes me feel like a teenager with a crush. I'm almost certain she has the same feelings for me. I was thinking about trying a secret admirer thing to see if she comes to me and asks about it.

Can anyone help me out and let me know what to do???

2006-08-28 02:01:27 · 17 answers · asked by scott in ct 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter has her own computer in her bedroom, and I know she is talking to older guys on it. How can I moniter her conversations ?

2006-08-28 02:00:52 · 42 answers · asked by steve 1 in Family

2006-08-28 02:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend is away from the net for some days.
She informed me before but didn't said me for how many days.
I am checking my e-mail every day for her letter..... No.
This makes me very nervous.

2006-08-28 02:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by N O 2 in Friends

hello all, ive always been good at giving advice, and taking my own advice, but this time im at a loss, so i think that maybe someone out there maybe able to help, im a mom of five and ive been threw the worst of marriages, im currently in my 2 marriage and at first everything was good, and he treated us well but for the last 6yrs he has been very emotionaly abusive, and turns everything around to make him self seem better, and faultless, well my oldest son has a learning disability and does not funtion well in the outside world, and he has moved back home with his soon to be, my husband is flying off the handle at me, for allowing him to even come home...so my question is should i put my kid out on the street, or should i do something about this husband, please help.

please excuse the bad spelling.

2006-08-28 02:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by mistysr 2 in Family

2006-08-28 01:59:11 · 9 answers · asked by LOLO 3 in Family

Honestly they cannot sleep at night unless they bite you a little. Not to mention the insomnia they got!

2006-08-28 01:58:23 · 5 answers · asked by Pearl 5 in Friends

I just go wild when my wife tosses my salad... is it normal. does it happen to you too?

2006-08-28 01:56:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 5 days it my wife's first b'day after marriage
I really want to gift her something spl
Any ideas?
I know first reaction u guys/ladies wud tell me to buy wat she likes the most ...but wat i want to as wat is dat thing which can really bring a s smile on her face esp all u ladies wont u do dat favr to me wat can really make u feel gr8 and u gave a hug n kiss to ur hubby

2006-08-28 01:56:29 · 9 answers · asked by funky_dude 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i live in another country to her, so she didn,t tell me that my dad was ill so i did not see him before he died.. my child andi flew home for the funeral and the next day she dragged us to the notary where i had to sign my inheretance away, which was 2 rds of what he owned but as she did not list anything there was nothing there so i was in a loose loose situation and i signed. she has since sent me some money which is a fraction of what is there but now forbade me to come to her house again what should i do for the best? the signature is irrevocable . but i am seething any advice please?

2006-08-28 01:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Girls, what is more attractive on guys; shaved underarms and legs, or unshaved?

2006-08-28 01:56:02 · 12 answers · asked by soman613 1 in Singles & Dating

NOOR ADEEFARRA BINTI MOHD ADKA FROM MALAYSIA,SHE'S 11 YEARS OLD.

2006-08-28 01:55:35 · 4 answers · asked by naf_babygirl 1 in Friends

2006-08-28 01:55:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me what to do although i m very loyal and sincere to him. please advise me.I M SO SENTIMENTAL TOWARDS HIM that i dont wanna wont to leave him also! HE DOES NOT ADMIT that he is searching females on net although i have seen him many time on net.

2006-08-28 01:54:36 · 18 answers · asked by neetu k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bestfriend and my boyfriend made out three years ago, my boyfriend now my ex apologised and we became friends,but my friend neva did so we were not friends anymore but its been three years and i want to forgive her becos we now work in the same building and will be bumping into each other, what do u think.

2006-08-28 01:54:17 · 15 answers · asked by pOOhPhAT 6 in Singles & Dating

after that night, i really can't forget how he touch me.i really like the feeling when he touch me,but i also gone through weird feeling.i mean when he touch and kiss me,i feel cold and hot and i know i really nervous and my hand don't know need to put where.i just feel want to hold him,but i also think wierd to do so.what should i do to let myself more relax for the next time?

2006-08-28 01:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by winnie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it okay for men to be super slutty; but not for women? I know it's okay to some guys; but a girl will accept it with guys then turn around and cut that girl down! Whats the deal?

2006-08-28 01:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm scheduled to be one of the ring girls this w/e at a fighting match here where I live. My bf found out a couple of his uncles are going to be there and now he's uptight about me doing it. I don't want to go back on this committment but I don't him mad at me. What should I do?

2006-08-28 01:51:14 · 4 answers · asked by Judy L 4 in Singles & Dating

I have had someone before give me the line "I love you but i need to see what else is out there" So now since I am in the same situation again without the statement, I am terrified I am going t oget the same statement again. what do you think.

2006-08-28 01:50:11 · 3 answers · asked by thickgirlsickofdrama 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi friends,

Let, u r in luv…

Both of u didn’t share ur luv with anyone, even to ur friends… the girl asked u to ask her parents, and u said that u should first come to a good position (getting a respectable job) b4 telling to ur and her parents.

At that time her parents got a guy for her. Bcoz of the family problem, she also cudn’t tell abt ur luv to her parents and she tried to avoid this arrangement by telling some other reason, but her parents didn’t accept. Then u got a good job, and asked her parents. But they told u that all the arrangements are going on, and they cudn’t stand b4 the relatives… After that she has got convinced and she told that we had to tell earlier and we should not let our parents to worry. And she is worrying abt u and ur family.

All these happened within one month, now they finished the marriage, she and u r in different places. But, u cudn’t imagine it, u cudn’t convince urself and u can’t be without contacting her…

2006-08-28 01:49:23 · 6 answers · asked by My_Answers 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 01:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by jess n 1 in Weddings

Be honest please!

2006-08-28 01:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by sentinel 1 in Singles & Dating

having made love to my beautiful wife several times over the past week and an especially passiionate Saturday night, we were confronted with the option of having an empty house this past Sunday morning. Trying to be the he-man, i suggested we make love and after a few minutes of foreplay, entered my wife only to have her yawn a few minutes later. this kind of irriated me and i felt she might be signaling that my lovemakeing was boring her.

i asked her and she said, no, she was just yawning.

over the next few minutes, my little man began to deflate and finally she gave me the tap and asked if things were ok.

i said, no, i guess i just got distracted by the yawn.

well, in the past, when i have an erection error, she gets all upset because she feels she isn't pretty enough to "sustain" me. she was a model and is very hot. however, sometimes it's not about her. she doesn't understand that. so she has banned me from sex, until I "really" desire her.

2006-08-28 01:46:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There was this boy sending me mixed messages. I told him I liked him and he just wanted to be friends. Knowing this he continued to show like signs that he liked me, so I thought he still did. It's been like this for years and so now I can't be around him tooo long without wanting to hold him or his hand or tell him how I feel about him. Lately he's been ignoring me, so I am done trying to win his heart and I am going to focus on other things. Problem is it is very hard not to think of him, or how we could have been, sometimes this makes me upset. Also, about how he lead me on. Plus I still see him almost every week because we go to the same church, so I can't change that. What I need is some advice on how to keep him off my mind and to get over him. If I don't I feel like I could have a breakdown. Any advice?? Please!

2006-08-28 01:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Irabee 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I the only one with a dry, sarcastic sense of humor? Some of you would be amazed at how many seemingly "intelligent" people send me hate letters because they just didn't get the joke.

Wassup wit dat?

2006-08-28 01:45:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I like shes shy and she dont know how beautiful she is and she is like me, But she alwes taps me steps on my feet and stuff I cant see her right now so I made an imaginary clone of her, Like in my old question I explain what I do with my imaginary girlfriend kind of. But now how do I get a shy girl to go on a date? I am also shy so this is a problem but she is so great and I get sick in a good way thinking about her thats why I made the imaginary clone.

2006-08-28 01:45:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can this work...a father figure situation?

2006-08-28 01:44:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's along story but if you are bored youcan look at some of me previous questions which will make thing a little clearer. But basically a girl I have been crazy about for years has decided that she never wants to see or hear from me again. It hurts so much. I admit it is sort of my doing as have moaned at her about a few things of late which hurt me. I sort of felt led on by her. She has always known how I felt so it was so hard to take when she eventually told me she didn't want me. I have a mixture of guilt and anger inside me. I don't feel I was treated fairly by her at times, but at the same time I feel bad as I always wanted more than just a friendship and I guess that made things hard for her at times. It's a lot more complicated than it sounds, but I just don't quite know what to think. She sent me a quite angry goodbye email and said to never contact her again, so I have to respect that. I am just so unsure as to how to get over it, when I so confused and in pain.

2006-08-28 01:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by Mr looking for answers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iv just recently found out my boyfriend has been playing away by snooping through his phone. I feel heartbroken and upset. It even came to the point last night that I didnt want 2 live anymore. It was such a shock 2 me coz we spend so much time together and always tells me he loves me. Whenever Im out on my own hes on the phone all night making sure Im alright and that Im behaving. You probably wouldnt find such a romantic guy. I couldnt believe hed do this 2 me and when I confronted him about it he said that he had done nought wrong and that I had misread his txts but I dnt think its true. All of a sudden things have become so clear for me. He always said he went away every other weekend up his mates but now Im starting 2 have doubts. I havnt faced him since and I feel as though I have been taken for a fool. I feel used, cheated and humiliated. Im torn of whether 2 believe him or not. Please help.

2006-08-28 01:43:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships