having made love to my beautiful wife several times over the past week and an especially passiionate Saturday night, we were confronted with the option of having an empty house this past Sunday morning. Trying to be the he-man, i suggested we make love and after a few minutes of foreplay, entered my wife only to have her yawn a few minutes later. this kind of irriated me and i felt she might be signaling that my lovemakeing was boring her.
i asked her and she said, no, she was just yawning.
over the next few minutes, my little man began to deflate and finally she gave me the tap and asked if things were ok.
i said, no, i guess i just got distracted by the yawn.
well, in the past, when i have an erection error, she gets all upset because she feels she isn't pretty enough to "sustain" me. she was a model and is very hot. however, sometimes it's not about her. she doesn't understand that. so she has banned me from sex, until I "really" desire her.
2006-08-28 01:46:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i also have to point out i'm in my late 30s, about 60 pounds overweight and may have high blood pressure at times. would these things contribute to ED?
2006-08-28 01:58:19 · update #1
i don't understand the yawn...i mean, other than being a bit overweight, my wife is happy with my body type and general personality. and i have a pretty nice penis. maybe it's the stress or maybe i have diabetes or something and don't know it.
2006-08-28 07:40:27 · update #2
Just don't think about what she is doing. I have to yawn during sex sometimes and it has nothing to do with it being boring. Is she receptive to watching a porn move with you so that you can maintain your erection better? That might do the trick. If not, look at an adult girlie magazine. Get some image in your head and don't take personally what she does. Make sure that she is getting some whopping orgasms so she will be more into it, if you think she is getting bored.
2006-08-28 01:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the things in your last paragraph can contribute to the problem but, that yawn, man, that's a killer.
2006-08-28 09:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe some spacing would be good...you know what they say of too much of a good thing....give her some time and then make a big effort to show her that she drives you wild
2006-08-28 08:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Issabella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm. thats so stupid honestly.Things like this happen all the time.How is she going to know when to lift the ban.Does she read minds also.You need to seriously talk to your wife.And i would have felt the same way if my partner yawned while i was making love to.
2006-08-28 08:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone is tired, and not just your wife.
Everyone needs a break and your body was letting you know that.
Don;t worry about it.
2006-08-28 08:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being cruel to you for no good reason. She could actually make the problem worse if it caused by emotional reasons
Good Luck to you and God Bless!!
2006-08-28 08:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋