It's along story but if you are bored youcan look at some of me previous questions which will make thing a little clearer. But basically a girl I have been crazy about for years has decided that she never wants to see or hear from me again. It hurts so much. I admit it is sort of my doing as have moaned at her about a few things of late which hurt me. I sort of felt led on by her. She has always known how I felt so it was so hard to take when she eventually told me she didn't want me. I have a mixture of guilt and anger inside me. I don't feel I was treated fairly by her at times, but at the same time I feel bad as I always wanted more than just a friendship and I guess that made things hard for her at times. It's a lot more complicated than it sounds, but I just don't quite know what to think. She sent me a quite angry goodbye email and said to never contact her again, so I have to respect that. I am just so unsure as to how to get over it, when I so confused and in pain.
2006-08-28 01:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by Mr looking for answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I never wanted to lose her. It hurts knowing that I will never see her again. I feel I am as much to blame for the whole thing, and told her I was sorry many times, but I think she is angry with me and I really hope she doesn't hate me. She meant so much to me, and even how hurt I am because of her, I could never hate her.
2006-08-28 01:45:50 · update #1
I know her well and she means it when she says she will never speak to me again
2006-08-28 01:53:51 · update #2
Just need to accept that it is over and you need to take what you learned and move on to find a true love
Good Luck to you and God Bless!!
2006-08-28 01:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesnt hate you, maybe she just got a bit over loaded with the situation and feels bad for the way she treated you, and it is actually guilt that has kicked in, and not the desire to get rid of you forever. Give her some space and let the friendship take its natural course, if it is meant to be she will come back to you as a friend and i am pretty sure if you now leave it - you wont be the first to come crawling hun.
Good luck x
2006-08-28 01:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by cleo55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that whatever anybody says to you won`t help the pain you feel but trust me in time the pain and confusion will slowly become less and before you know it you`ll have the strength and courage to move on.I was kind of in your situation last year but i was with somebody for 8yrs and i really thought i knew him turned out i really did not.I know this sounds bad but it is better to find out now then to fully commit yourself to somebody.Try to focus on your career,maybe take up a hobby or join a club of some kind,do something to keep you occupied and before long you`ll realise that all this guilt,hurt and confusion will be less and less.Maybe try seeing a counsellor as they can help with all these emotions.....Good luck.
2006-08-28 02:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very sad story and one where ive not read your other ones but I can only imagine its a very onesided situation. It sounds to me now after reading your other questions that depression is ruling your life. Ive had it before and I am still battling on with mine but I keep on top of things and make sure I write everything down. It may well be that your girlfriend didn't know what to do anymore and your depression was getting in the way.
Not everyone can handle anothers depressive feelings as they do take over everything else.
2006-08-28 01:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u will get over this just take each day as it comes.keep urself busy take up a new hobbie u will get over this yes it will take time.and throught time u will meet some1 else let her go u have 2 good luck x
2006-08-28 01:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime when we do the wrong things, we have to suffer the consequences, You have to face facts, and move on, she is probably hurting also, give her time, your both may need space, send her a card, from time to time.
2006-08-28 01:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have just got to accept the fact she doesnt want to know u anymore. theres no point dwelling on her its just holding u back from meeting someone else and going on to have a loving relationship. ul forget her as time goes by believe me
2006-08-28 02:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Barson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her . plenty more pebbles on the beach
2006-08-28 01:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by lyndsey ww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋