tell me what to do although i m very loyal and sincere to him. please advise me.I M SO SENTIMENTAL TOWARDS HIM that i dont wanna wont to leave him also! HE DOES NOT ADMIT that he is searching females on net although i have seen him many time on net.
2006-08-28 01:54:36 · 18 answers · asked by neetu k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
RUN NOW!!! it happened to me not long ago.... after i confront my ex, he denied.. but soon after he made stupid excuse to break up with me... So dump him now!! you deserve better...
2006-08-28 04:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's looking for another female on the net, then he does not love you. That's about as plain as can be.
Suggestion: Check history files, etc on the computer. Once you have a few sites he has been on, confront him and kick him to the curb. He now thinks he can get away with this type of behaviour because you are allowing it to happen. He will never stop looking if you are allowing it.
Time to tell him to give you 100%, or to get out of your life before he finds someone else to be with behind your back (cause that's what he is doing).
2006-08-28 09:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he search you out on the net? If so, surely you know what the score is? Assuming you did not meet on the net then take comfort in the fact that net life is very short. People soon get tired of net friends and move on.
2006-08-28 09:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be searching just for a hobby or for fun. You should not doubt him simply because he is surfing net. If you see him or find out that he is having sex with other girl then only you should confirm that he is not faithfull to you. If you are having sex often then ask him ,particularly when he is fully erect and aroused and about to enter you, the truth and tell him that unless he tells you the truth,you shall not allow him to enter you. He will speak truth.
2006-08-28 09:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by gelilio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are guys. Most guys like to look at sexy beautiful women as a fantasy. Most guys can separate fantasy and reality. It should not have an impact on your relationship. However, if it is too distracting or he is obsessed by it, you may need to reconsider.
If it really bothers you, you have 2 choices:
You may want to increase your sex life with him and make your body his fantasy than the others. That would mean talking to him about what he really desires and doing it.
or
Leave him.
2006-08-28 09:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Hockey, Guns & Beer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that ur boyfriend is surfing the net then y the hell are u having sex with him, it clearly states that he needs u only for sex and nothing else, so leave him immediately and see a true lover and not a sex bom person
2006-08-28 09:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by bridgetmaria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as one has not tied the knot the commitment level is just a zero. and once the secret of your hidden truth the bed is revealed the charm is lost. once you have submitted your physical body thinking that you have won him sorry only you have lost yourself. sorry, get married soon and make him commit for you. your man is not that serious about, if you admit, it is better for you to get seriously involved in matrimony with a better person!!
2006-08-28 09:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by sankaran c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better u leave him, b4 he leaves u and u ll fell for that as ur SENTIMENTAL. U cant stop such kind of ppl. they think its fun. He is using U.
He love ur body not U heart. Jus Dump him b4 he does.
2006-08-28 09:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by krazy_about_girls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normaly guys turn over to net even if they have a real thing at home because , they tend to get bored with the same ol thing..... are u giving him blow jobs ... etc... Try to take him by suprise..
give a blow jobs at "risky" places like in car etc... Then you will put back the fire in the relationship
2006-08-28 10:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ajax L 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be sentimental be practical you just make him jealous by interacting with someone else.you can see the magic.
2006-08-28 09:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by sahil g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not sincere to u.Better u leave him. He is only interested in sex.and not in you.If u r not married ,u can test him by proposing marriage to him.His answer will be --WAIT. if so he deserve to be left.
2006-08-28 09:22:07 · answer #11 · answered by Lalit B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋