Family & Relationships - 24 August 2006

I asked a question a few days ago about my husband being emotionally/verbally and sometimes physically abusive to me. The thing I'm wondering about now is why he's mean to me for a few days, even weeks at a time, but then suddenly he becomes nice again for a few days or even for weeks without saying anything hurtful to me. I wonder if I should still make a plan on how to leave him and take care of my 10 month old daughter, or should I just tough it out and stay with him? I am 19 years old. I know he isn't the one for me. He conned me into this marriage. I love him as a friend. I'm so lost. I just don't know what to do. The reason I'm hesitating on leaving him is I'm not sure how I'm going to provide for my daughter. I need your opinions on this please. What do you think I should do?

2006-08-24 15:39:18 · 29 answers · asked by Carrie! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a little fat because I have medical problem but the guys only see whats on the outside and dont even try to get to knoe me for who I am and it really upsets me.

2006-08-24 15:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Hockey gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 15:39:02 · 6 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 15:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by paco 1 in Friends

how quickly was it over? what'd you do about it?

2006-08-24 15:38:37 · 14 answers · asked by Mic Y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you think about girls who stops you from smoking and drinking?!

2006-08-24 15:38:30 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous girl 1 in Singles & Dating

It took me 2 years to sleep with him and now that we have he calls me less. I'm trying not to be 2 pushy but i'm growing impatient, and at the same time i'm scared to reveal that i love him with all my heart. He tells me that he loves me, but just casually and i'm a little confused as to how i should take that. What can i do to make him call me more often. By the way everytime we get together we don't always have sex, sometimes we just cuddle, talk, and chill. I like him so much but when i like somebody that much I tend to back off cause i'm afraid it might just be sex! FRIENDLY ADVICE ONLY PLEASE! He is the only guy I am available to whenever he calls!

2006-08-24 15:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by BREIZY2SHA 3 in Singles & Dating

and do you think your heart will choose him or she from the first moment you see he or she i do not think a lot believes in that but i do

2006-08-24 15:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by mopsely 1 in Singles & Dating

My 40 year old stepdaughter has been living with us for about 5 years now and to say the least it has been an experience.She is very bossy and nags me constantly in fact,I call her my 2nd wife!! What the problem is she has this facination about my sex life.She is constantly accusing me of masturbating or going to porno sites.She is always snooping around trying to catch me doing something or going thru the history on the cput to see what sites I visited.She constantly tells her Mother that I am after her body, which is certainly not true, and her mom knows this.She is a very attractive woman,has never been married or even had a serious relationship.She does not want kids says men are pigs and finds fault with just about everyone including her family.She came home from NYC after 9/11.She was a very successful rock band manager and her clients were big hitters.Now she seems to be content to live in the guest house with her 10 cats and run my life.Tell me what would you do?

2006-08-24 15:37:15 · 22 answers · asked by WAKE 99 2 in Family

2006-08-24 15:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Maverick 1 in Singles & Dating

WHAT or WHO would u DO?

2006-08-24 15:35:40 · 19 answers · asked by La Prieta 2 in Singles & Dating

If it did, where you a teenager or adult.

2006-08-24 15:35:35 · 9 answers · asked by Giggles 1 in Singles & Dating

He is in the same dorm with me.I have fall in love with him for several month.but he has a girl friend and he loves her very much.What should i do?
I shouldnt love him ,but I cannot control myself.If i tell him,i'm afraid he will leave me.if i don't tell him ,i can't suffer the love.
What should i do?

2006-08-24 15:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by loveforever 1 in Singles & Dating

Some one said I sleep with them when I did not. And it ruined a relationship that ment a great deal to me.

This other person had been a boyfriend. But we broke up. And after a year. I started to see the new boyfriend that belived the old boyfriend.

2006-08-24 15:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by sunnydays 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-24 15:33:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've just seen a question on masturbation, loads of answers saying that it's wrong and the guy should grow up!

What's with that!? Are we still living in 1920? Who here thinks masturbation, male or female is wrong?

What about porn? Not specialist, just normal porn - is everyone here a Puritan robot?

2006-08-24 15:33:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-24 15:33:36 · 15 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

If both marriages are bad, no sex is involved, just talking and being their for each other when spouses are not. Does God consider it adultry? Trying to help a friend out and need opinions.

2006-08-24 15:33:32 · 19 answers · asked by polly b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-24 15:33:32 · 5 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend brought up at dinner time that a girl he used to see a LONG time ago drunk called him late last night and that he listened to her talk nonsense for about 10 minutes before faking a bad connection and hung up on her. Should I be thinking anything of this. Like... he NEVER usually answers his cell late at night and he NEVER ever answers his cell if it's a number he doesn't recognize. He accused me of pouting and acting like a redneck 9 year old because I said it bothered me that she called. Am I wrong? Is he right?

2006-08-24 15:32:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl likes me and i kindof like her....so i called her at night and then we talked and she goes ok you wanna call me later at the end of the conversation(meaning later that night). so wat do i talk about when i call her later...the conversation is just gonna go like this.....hi , hi, wats going on, nothing u, nothing really, then it will be silent......wat do i say next or should i even call her.....help

2006-08-24 15:32:39 · 2 answers · asked by sports123454321 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are a man, have you ever hit a woman? Why did you do it and did you regret it? My husband was in a rage the other night and he was really hurting me, so in the process of blocking his blows, I gave him a black eye.(By pure accident, I assure you.) But of course, that only made things worse for me. We are separated now, but it still doesn't erase all of those bad memories. Please tell me why these things happen? Don't men understand what this can do to a woman's soul? (and face for that matter.)

2006-08-24 15:32:28 · 11 answers · asked by Ava R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-24 15:31:55 · 8 answers · asked by massage and hair girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-24 15:30:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had this friend and we were getting along gret and everything but this girl in my class sned him e-mails on my account and he thinks I send them so now he is mad at me and Im trying to tell him its not me but he wont listen hes just still mad at me.

2006-08-24 15:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by Hockey gurl 2 in Friends

First off, I'm a straight guy.

So there's this guy in my art class who is very talented and funny, but I think he's gay. He takes every chance to sit next to me and we get along and stuff, but I don't want it to get awkward or him to get the wrong idea.

I really don't want to confront him about it either, since he could just be metro and really nice... but...

What do I do?

2006-08-24 15:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by rumilb 4 in Friends

I am a 35 yr old female, realizing that i prefer females in the last 4 years, how do i go about telling my family??

2006-08-24 15:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by collin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

getting married feb 17 2007 want to have a mardi gras wedding need to find atire for mardi gras theme

2006-08-24 15:28:50 · 5 answers · asked by jbcajun 1 in Weddings

if a question says guys only or girls only u go to it anywayz??? and if it is the oppisit gender then u want to go to it more just 2 see what it says???

2006-08-24 15:27:52 · 34 answers · asked by dana 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-24 15:27:38 · 24 answers · asked by ugotme62 1 in Singles & Dating