Im a little fat because I have medical problem but the guys only see whats on the outside and dont even try to get to knoe me for who I am and it really upsets me.
2006-08-24 15:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Hockey gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie i feel your pain and i think a lot of other people will also. It is funny but we all want people to see us for who we are not what we look like yet me judge other people based on looks. Just be confident i know it is hard i have often asked god why cant i have this body or that one the truth is god made us all different and the sooner you start to accept and love yourself the sooner it wont matter what mean people say. Here is something to remember you are an individual created by god unique and beautiful keep the things that are most important to you near and try not to get too upset by ignorant small minded people. best wishes
2006-08-24 15:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Eisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame America for allowing such superficiality to exist. There is no hope anymore for this country, socially speaking. If you have any faults (fat in your case or facial appearance in mine), no one will want to get to know you better and discover what you offer on the inside.
I hope Americans continue to breed stupid "sexy" airheads so that this country will devolve into 3rd world status in a few generations. And don't think it can't happen!
2006-08-24 15:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw them!! goshh if there givin you trouble don't be botherd by it paaaleaseeee!!! they could care less about what you look like I mean tell them their evil and not even a bit like you on the inside and never will be because they're jerks!! or say you woulden't be suprised if they winde up at home with mommy for the rest of their horrible misserable ugly rude jerky lifes!!
2006-08-24 15:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, have some confidence in yourself. Guys don't necessarily only go for looks. We like women who have confidence in themselves. You're a little heavy? Big deal. Stop worrying about guys so much and more about yourself and you'll eventually run into someone perfect for you when you least expect it.
2006-08-24 15:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sullivan Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your energy letting them make you feel the way you do , love yourself be happy you're healthy and if you want to lose a couple pounds then every time you want a coke or eat think to yourself water is healthier and if i drink `1 glass of water before i eat i'll get full faster, also when at nite the snack attack comes..... drink water , it works :-) also bullies wont bullie you if you say something back to show you dont like what theyre doing , like "BITE ME " OR fyou
2006-08-24 15:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're still young.. like High School or Junior High. Just wait until you get to college. These guys are douche bags. Don't let them get to you.
2006-08-24 15:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing the wrong people get someone who loves you fat or skinnny
2006-08-24 15:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shanae :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋