My fiance is 23, we have dated for two years and been engaged for 6 months. We live together and both have one year of college left to finish. Neither one of our parents pay for school, we have been doing it ourselves and havent had a problem thus far...
We just recently set a wedding date in January and have already invited family, mine and hers.
Her father, two days ago, offered to pay for her college,car, bills, ONLY if it was a particular christian college out of state, and ONLY if she lived in the dorms, didn't get married, AND I didn't go with her AND she leaves this Friday.
He has never acted like he has had a problem with me before. What should she (we) do...
Of course the money would help, but I feel what he is doing is very underhanded, manipulative, and controlling, as he claims he just wants her to finish school, but he has never offered to help any other time, and he is only willing to help under these terms. I say he is trying to buy control. Your take on this???
2006-08-23
04:30:58
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Tunasandwich
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Marriage & Divorce