She's Hispanic and I found out that she married a person for citizenship. She did not tell me but meanwhile she continued to go out with me. Once it seemed serious she put the brakes on. I know she loves me and I as well. What shall I do?
2006-08-23 04:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can not handle it you 2 must still love one another so what y'all need to do is just sit down in talk to one another and if y'all don't want to be with one another find some one else
2006-08-23 04:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by charmed man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... there is two options that I can see...
On the one hand, you could give it some time for both of your feelings to calm down and for her to realize that she really dosent' love the guy she married and needs to get a divorce.
On the other hand... And the one i'd suggest you do... Move on... It dosent' sound like she has the maturity for a serious relationship... I've seen women "put the brakes" on serious relationships and 9/10 it means they want to play the field still... Now, it dosen't mean that later down the line they wont' regeret it (8/10 with the other two still playing the field permenateally)... I just means that it's not fair to you to be waiting for this to happen... Move on...
2006-08-23 04:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She used someone for citizenship, what makes you think that she wasn't trying to hold out with you for the citizenship but time was running out and you were nolonger a use for her in that department? I am sorry to be blunt, but your in love with a deceitful, coniving, and selfish person.......... at least thats what i get from your question here. She is your x, let her go, go on with your life and find happiness elsewhere, because it isn't there with her and she isn't getting a divorce anytime soon, she at least needs to wait it out for a year and get a regular divorce......... up to a year the marriage can be anulled and she will not be legal that way. BLessed be.
2006-08-23 04:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? Do you want her back? Do you want to get away from her????
By the way she sounds like a real nice girl, using someone for citizenship. Talking to you even though she is married.....try and set your standards a little higher.
2006-08-23 04:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, forget about her, why wasn't she honest with you and why didn't she marry you for citizenship instead. You knwo if you can't trust someone you defetly can't carry out a loving relationship full of respect, trust and communication...
2006-08-23 04:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋