Please tell me what to do as I have never been in this type of a situation.Every time I close my eyes, I think of him and his friends.Ialso cannot concentrate during class.
2006-08-23 04:25:11 · 17 answers · asked by Preethi J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes too old for you get a guy your age.
2006-08-23 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you have it pretty easy. Right now you have the power considering you know he likes you. Since your in high school just send him a note, phone call, or an email or just talk to him when he is alone and say you've been thinking about him and if he still likes you would you both like to go see a movie or something. I don't think you telling your friends and having them tell him you like him will work since you already told him no. He will just think they are playing with him. YOU basically have to make a step to get him back.
2006-08-23 11:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by unknowndiscovery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact same position as you. I'm not trying to sound like a parent or anything but he's too old, and think he'll be leaving you next year, and off to have his own life while your in school, yeah you might trust him and what not but guys will be guys. and about the whole crush thing, it comes and goes, just like he eventually will, you two can still be friends hang out play some ball and what not, but let him know his limits. Whats meant to be will be so who knows what will happen in the future
2006-08-23 11:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Randa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 12th grader pursuing a 9th grader isn't wise in the first place. For starters he's probably 18. You'll be causing more problems for yourself, your parents, and him if you get involved. It's okay to crush on older guys, but in this case I would advise against acting on it. You'll probably regret it if you start something with him. You've got to look out for yourself.
2006-08-23 11:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cassiopeia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt a little with him and see where that takes you , once you guys are alone tell him that you were sorry about brushing him off cause you were nervous and tell him that you would like to get to know him a little better ..
If he's cool about then good for you but if he brushes you off then you know he's no good for you ..
Good luck!!
2006-08-23 11:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to one of his friends and see how he feels he may still like you. After you find out if hes still interested go talk to him and tell him you'd like to give a relationship with him a try
2006-08-23 11:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by travelgrl85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you would like to hang out sometime. It's harmless this way and you can develop a relationship with him slowly. There's no harm in hanging out.
2006-08-23 11:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. tell him that you actually are interested. you changed your mind there's nothing wrong with that. if he says he doesn't want to go out anymore don't even sweat it because he's probably just upset that you said no the first time. but he'll probably still want to if he really likes you. so yes, just tell him you changed your mind. definitly.
2006-08-23 11:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry just tell him that u didnt like him before but ur feelings for him has changed...
2006-08-23 11:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by UK GUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite a crush u have on him huh!well,its never too late to make amends so just tell him how u now feel.
2006-08-23 11:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by newdawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋