Family & Relationships - 23 August 2006

He's 13 and very very bad. He steals, drinks, does drugs, he doens't respect authority, and he's ht me several times. He's even kill the family cat because it pooped in his room. I've tried everything to help him. I've switched him to alternative schools, called the police and had him jailed, sent him to one of those boot camps, and we've been to at least 3000 hours of counseling. I've even tried corporal punishment and nothing works. The last straw was when he punched my infant daughter in the face when she was crying. I screamed at him and told him that I hate him. I simply don't love him anymore. Is that wrong? Would it be wrong for me to just give him up. I can't handle the stress and he's a danger to our physical and mental health. How fast can child services pick him up?

2006-08-23 08:15:16 · 69 answers · asked by American Jesus USA USA USA !!!!! 1 in Friends

2006-08-23 08:14:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 08:14:24 · 17 answers · asked by monigees23 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been w/ my boyfriend J for 3+ yrs. I met him the same day I met his F'riend. J & I had more physical relationship, just making out. That stopped & we continued hanging out w/ the group as friends & I noticed F taking an interest in me. I went for a semester abroad & found mself thinking of both, & F was thinking of me. i was curious still about both, as I still knew little about each & even less about F. When I returned, I ran into J again & feelings for him returned. I stopped thinking of F. My focus was on J. But F was asking me out, and I ignored it–immature! I courted J for a semester until he realized & we began seeing each other, then graduatd. We lived w/ rents 4 1yr & have now moved 2 city together, but F moved then too & became Js roommate. We 3 hang out all the time!! Its been 1yr+ now & I think i still have regrets/feelings for F, who now likes my friend from home. I love my BF VERYVERY much & cant bear to tell him of my confused feelings. How do i get rid of these?!?!

2006-08-23 08:13:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 08:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's disgusting and he goes to my highschool. it's getting really weird. he won't leave me alone. how can i get him to take the hint?? i have a boyfriend.

2006-08-23 08:12:49 · 18 answers · asked by lia 1 in Singles & Dating

Im curious to see how many of them there are.

2006-08-23 08:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by nykid29 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 08:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by Lone Eagle 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl on an internet dating service and we have a date tomorrow evening. She likes Cantonese cuisine, so I told her I was a sous chef. Now she wants me to prepare an extravagant meal for her and her roommate. I don't want to screw this one up!

2006-08-23 08:11:07 · 6 answers · asked by I'm that asshole down the st 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a great sex life, and at the risk of sounding obnoxious, I look much better than any woman that he was doing it to. I am sickened by this. Please help!

2006-08-23 08:10:39 · 51 answers · asked by confused05 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 08:10:35 · 6 answers · asked by monigees23 1 in Singles & Dating

but never told anybody since it would ruin your he-man ladykiller image?

2006-08-23 08:10:30 · 8 answers · asked by callme4blowjob 1 in Singles & Dating

who is cute and pretty

2006-08-23 08:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 08:09:44 · 3 answers · asked by sexy T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It isnt ploite to just ask a woman...Hey can I have sex with you? Why is that?

2006-08-23 08:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by ingy_692004 1 in Singles & Dating

WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO WAR? WHY CANT WE BE HAPPY WITH WHAT WE HAVE? WHY DO PEOPLE STEAL !!, KILL, ETC.
AND ONE THING I REALLY WANT TO KNOW IS WHY DO PEOPLE TALK ON CELL PHONES WHILE PAYING FOR GROCERYS, FAST FOOD ETC, NEVER EVEN SAYING HI TO THE CASHIER??
SO RUDE. TREATING OTHER PEOPLE LIKE MACHINES OR ROBOTS.
PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN TO CONNECT AGAIN. I LIKE YAHOO ANSWERS. CONNECTING.
AND PLEASE DONT DRIVE A CAR AND TALK ON CELL PHONE.
MY YOUNG DAUGHTER JUST TOTALED HER CAR.
BUT SHE IS ALIVE THANKS BE TO GOD!! SHE HAS TWO CHILDREN.
ANYWAY...LETS ALL START LOVING AND BEING CONSIDERATE....WE COULD HAVE PEACE!! WE DONT HAVE TO WAIT FOR JESUS TO RETURN. WE HAVE THE POWER.
AND WE NEED TO TAKE CARE OF EARTH !! SAVE THE OZONE!!!! GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU.
I NEEDED TO VENT.
WE NEED A PEACE REVOLUTION!!!!
we need to help our neighbors, old days if a barn burnt down ..everyone built a new one.
we may even pass angels throughout life & not know it.
feed your hungrey neighbors, neigborhood )

2006-08-23 08:09:12 · 2 answers · asked by grasshopper 1 in Friends

im a 30 something divorcee looking for the right lady and think i have found her. Please help! with thanks big jock.

2006-08-23 08:09:12 · 5 answers · asked by jock s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 08:08:54 · 1 answers · asked by otherhalfaimee 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship.. I call him everyday and he calles me everynight... but I dont like calling him because he`s uncle always answers the phone and bugs him when he`s on there... even when he calls me he bugs him... and today I have to call because he has to go out of state in two days and were supposed to be hanging out...how do I get over his uncle and make him go away.... like example: he gets on the phone when were talking, hell do something to make him not pay attention to the conversation, or hell even grab the phone and hang up on me... and my boyfriend keeps telling him to quit... his uncle is 23 my boyfriend is 16

2006-08-23 08:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-23 08:08:39 · 27 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-23 08:07:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey im 14 and my best friend is17.my mom thinks shes a bad influence on me.but she picks me up to do stuff drops me off at the mall and all that good stuff.and we have alot in commen.what should i do to get my mom to notice shes not that bad?!?

2006-08-23 08:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im a white girl and Im dating someone black....I was just wondering what peoples views were on this......

2006-08-23 08:06:49 · 17 answers · asked by sara c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm married with 2 beautiful girls but recently i've been in contact via email on myspace with an ex boyfriend from the past (10 yrs ago)... he was my first love... i had to move away with my mom.. so we kind of lost touch.. but come to find out he married my best friend.. which they have a son together... i admit, i am jealous.. dont know why i feel this way.. but, its seems he's happy as i am with my husband of 10 yrs also... i just wonder if he thinks of me or misses me or wonders of what it *could of been*... am i wrong to feel this way? should i back off or keep it casual and still remain in touch... it's hard to remain friendly without feelings.. please help on any advice... i wonder days if he feels the same way about me?

2006-08-23 08:06:45 · 5 answers · asked by kristy 1 in Friends

if you found that your wife/husband is having a secret affair with your neighbour whose wife/husband you are attracted to?
a little reasoning will help. this is very important for me. will be indebted for a nice piece of advice. thanks.

2006-08-23 08:05:19 · 13 answers · asked by Pratim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking of trying one but dont know.

2006-08-23 08:05:14 · 27 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you have any limitations on what is acceptable with regard to alcohol consumption?
I don't drink at all and I really don't want to be around a sloppy drunk but I try to keep an open mind and accept that as long as an adult does so responsibly, consuming alcohol is legal. I just don't like it and I don't want a guy drinking around my daughters giving them the impression that drinking is okay. I don't keep alcohol in my home and my daughters have never seen me drink but they have seen others drink like at a family gathering, etc. Is it really a big deal or am I being a prude?

2006-08-23 08:05:13 · 18 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Singles & Dating

cute stuff.. for a girl.

2006-08-23 08:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can't believe that men think that they can't be the same person they were before they got married. The only change you have to make is stop sleeping with other women. If that is the problem then maybe you don't need married. I believe that once you ask a woman to marry you she is supposed to be the only woman for you.

2006-08-23 08:04:39 · 3 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-23 08:04:14 · 9 answers · asked by akk345 1 in Marriage & Divorce