he's disgusting and he goes to my highschool. it's getting really weird. he won't leave me alone. how can i get him to take the hint?? i have a boyfriend.
2006-08-23 08:12:49 · 18 answers · asked by lia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have a boyfriend why don't you get him to tell the creep to stay away from you.
2006-08-23 08:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by LADY ICE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I don't think a hint is going to work. You need to let him know that you have a boyfriend and that you are not and never will be interested in him. Tell him that your boyfriend would not like it if he(the guy who won't leave you alone) keep following me around. Smile the whole time you are saying these things, then just walk away. If he continues, you may have to talk to someone as school about his behavior. Hope this helps.
2006-08-23 15:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by sadeyes99_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell him politely to leave you alone.....Tell him that you have a boyfriend and he's very jealous and he doesn't really like it when you have guy friends! Just try to be nice to him though, cause I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want anyone being rude if it was you, right? If my idea is not good, then try something else! Good Luck
2006-08-23 15:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in no uncertain terms that you are not interested and would appreciate it if he would respect that decision. You do not have to be nasty, just firm. After that IGNORE him. Act as if he doesn't exist. Mention the unwanted attention to your man as well; it is part of the whole alpha male thing to protect. Also advise the unwanted boy that if need be you will have the school administyration intervene, as at that point it's harassment.
2006-08-23 15:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Toxic Buddah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he knows the meaning of the word "Stalking", or maybe try "Sexual harassment" and get his attention. If he continues, tell the principal and let him deal with it, it's HIS job to take care of things like this.
Don't have your boyfriend get involved, other than to escort you places if you feel physically threatened, or he could end up in jail on assault charges.
2006-08-23 15:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I guy I can tell you, we're pretty obtuse and we just don't get hints. Tell him, "I don't like you. I don't want you to communicate with me in any way. Leave me alone."
2006-08-23 15:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by nasonic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur councelor, report him, tell ur parents and really take it seriously. Don't just tell ur bf so he can beat him up that won't solve the problem it will only make matters worse.
2006-08-23 15:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it would be better if he satyed 20 feet away from you at all times or you'll press charges. And them tell him he stinks and looks like a snake.
2006-08-23 15:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by C J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep you should tell your boy friend and he should handle it if not tell your guidance councilor or your dean because this could be the beginning of some kind of stalking
2006-08-23 15:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ur boyfriend to tell him to back off and leave you alone .. and just stay away from him .. its not that hard to avoid someone
2006-08-23 15:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋