Family & Relationships - 20 August 2006

I am a man and i have no idea why men are such as*holes. i mean i have never dumped a girl to go out whith another one or because i thought that she was hotter. A lot of men it seems do not pay enough attention to their girlfriends and wives. And a lot of men also cheat. Why? Why guys, why? can't us men just get it right? In my opinion men should be loving and caring. show a little emotion and let the women know you care. Be the best man in the world and make a girl feel special. Do it!! Do it for her.

2006-08-20 11:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Aaron the Great. 2 in Singles & Dating

Things seem to be getting real comfortable with me and my husband and he sometimes mistakes my comfortableness on lack of interest in him . I have assured him that is not the case. I want to make it up to him for ignoring his needs and wants. Mind you I am a stay at home mom and I do take great pride in my appearance and my home so its not like I let myself go----I just want him to know that I still desire him and need him-- so guys what can I do to show him that?? He is a rugged hard working kind of person so pansy stuff aint going to work. What would really shake you up enough to brag to your friends about what a great wife you have??

PS I am pretty open minded to an extent.

2006-08-20 11:31:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was textin my best (girl) friend today and totally nothing to do with the conversation she said this: " luk a few ppl r sayn u myt like me nd im sory bt i dnt wana no f its tru r nt bt nutn can *** of it, cuz i realy value u as a frnd, ".

What i wanna know is if you think this is her polite way of saying "i dont like you like that"

or she maybe does like me but is afraid of what would happen if it didnt work out?

2006-08-20 11:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 11:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by healthnut 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-20 11:28:12 · 1 answers · asked by reg691 1 in Friends

2006-08-20 11:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by reg691 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend was attacked by her husband a few days ago. The police came and took him to jail. I called the Police to get the report and they told me they would not give me any information.

Is there any public record of this ? It doesn't even show up in the police log.

I'd like to find out if he's been charged with anything etc.
She is too upset to talk to / think about it right now.
What should I do?

2006-08-20 11:26:24 · 16 answers · asked by NON 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-20 11:24:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is 19 getting ready to turn 20 this september and i just turned 17 this year. Is that illegal?

2006-08-20 11:24:45 · 20 answers · asked by Dora 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today my best friend for 7 years, dumped me completely out of the blue. She said she felt neglected because I hadn't phoned her for two weeks and now she never wants to speak to me again. I hardly felt this was a reason for such a heartbreaking dismissal, but I know she's apparently had other problems during this time and I haven't helped.

On Thursday we got our final A level results, so I phoned her to make sure she did ok and got into uni, but she wouldnt pick up. i tried again and again, for the next 3 days but nothing. Today she IMed me telling me she wants nothing to do with me and it broke my heart. I know i've been busy and haven't spoken to her for a while, but do you think this is fair? All our 7 years, just broken like that? Or did I deserve what I got? It's not like I betrayed her or did anything to purposely hurt her. I didn't realise our friendship was so fragile.

I think its a tragic waste. But maybe I should just get over it... What do you think?

2006-08-20 11:24:03 · 16 answers · asked by bOb 4 in Friends

Phone sex or cyber sex?

2006-08-20 11:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by Tasha D 3 in Singles & Dating

was wondering what is the general opinion, do women like chest hair or not?

2006-08-20 11:22:48 · 19 answers · asked by vexon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-20 11:21:45 · 22 answers · asked by College Kid 5 in Family

I was meeting a fella for a while and he was with another girl behind my back, i was really pissed off but he didn't care! he got off on a technicality- that we weren't officially going out! i haven't heard from him since, not that i even want to! i will probably see him next weekend, i really want to get back at him for hurting me but i don't want to look like a total b*tch...maybe just a bit of one! would it be ok to pour a drink over his head?? i've also found out he's a total womanising little skank! usefull suggestions oh how to get back at him please! cheers!

2006-08-20 11:21:26 · 42 answers · asked by Snow White 3 in Singles & Dating

I know the steryotypical "buy her flowers or chocolates" but what about for him? How can i show him how much i care? Keep in mind that he lives moderately far away

2006-08-20 11:20:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...that you've never told anyone?

2006-08-20 11:20:17 · 12 answers · asked by annastasia1955ca 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 11:20:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 11:19:44 · 15 answers · asked by col. mustard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Howdy y'all!

I just had a baby girl a few months ago. She's such a cute child. My boyfriend Carl and I decided to name her Penelope. She's 4 month's old as of last Tuesday. I don't breastfeed her, because I don't like NO ONE goin near my chachies. I've started feeding her Cheerios, but my mom says she's too young. I say my Mom should mind her own business; this is my child and I'm gonna raise her as I see fit. How can I get my mom out of my hair?

2006-08-20 11:18:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

because:
1-no woman can tame a badboy to becoming a good guy.
2-highschool aged boys look at women in a sexual way,not spiritual.
3-after the girl says she has cancer what guy(in his right mind),would marry her and spend the rest of his life (after she died) dreaming of his dead wife?

2006-08-20 11:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 11:18:28 · 4 answers · asked by cindy 2 in Friends

Why are guys just wiered, and players

2006-08-20 11:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

does any other guy find women obnoxious when they tease, play, and flirt with you? how do you prevent this from happening?

2006-08-20 11:17:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 11:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-20 11:16:03 · 17 answers · asked by Tonya Sizemore 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-20 11:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by cindy 2 in Friends

wht should i do to make her feel she is very special for me ???we r good frds,,,and i think we were more(every time she provide me moral support whenever i need and visa versa,,,)how i express my feelings ?

2006-08-20 11:15:30 · 10 answers · asked by jimi 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard that you have up to a year to give a wedding gift. I thought It was to be given the day of the wedding

2006-08-20 11:15:13 · 15 answers · asked by sweetjayne50 1 in Weddings

I just found a few things inside of his medicine cabinet at his house which I found very strange. He had self-tanning lotion that was half-way used up and he had a box of Ponds face-strips as well. He lives with two guys, both co-workers (one is 40 years old and the other is mid-20s and my boyfriend is 23) and no girls ever come over that house. He also has a collection of DVD's and I found the movie The Wedding Planner and i can't recall if that movie has been in his room before. (all of these items seem very girlie to me) Also, just today I noticed he had a couple bruises on his arm and I asked him where he got that from and he said a girl named, Angi at work pinched him because he told her he had a very high pain tolerance. These bruises look about 3 days old and it looks like a girls thumb print on his upper arm (like as if somebody grabbed him).

We have been together just over a 1 1/2, we just had a baby girl, she is 3 months old now. yahoo is not letting me write more!

2006-08-20 11:12:49 · 24 answers · asked by prettyinpink1004 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's sister and I have not gotten along for 4 years. Too long of a story but for the main reason she felt I was trying to take her parents away by making them like me more than her! Not true my parents are alive and well, and we have a wonderful relationship. My husband use to tell me things his sister would say about me (negative things) I use to get mad and have wonderful smart@ss combacks, but my husband and I would fight (verbal) fo days. My mom said thats no the right way so I quit talking about his sister when he would tell me more negative things she would say. I would tell him if you sister say something in regards to me leave it at her house, don't bring it in mine. However he con't to bring up mean things she says, I tried ignoring him when he says them, but he just keeps on telling them to me. I have confonted him several times about it, he apoligize saying he didn't know it would "upset me" What should I do? Any helpful advice?

2006-08-20 11:11:59 · 41 answers · asked by rockwithelmo 3 in Marriage & Divorce