I was meeting a fella for a while and he was with another girl behind my back, i was really pissed off but he didn't care! he got off on a technicality- that we weren't officially going out! i haven't heard from him since, not that i even want to! i will probably see him next weekend, i really want to get back at him for hurting me but i don't want to look like a total b*tch...maybe just a bit of one! would it be ok to pour a drink over his head?? i've also found out he's a total womanising little skank! usefull suggestions oh how to get back at him please! cheers!
2006-08-20 11:21:26 · 42 answers · asked by Snow White 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally i think your wasting all your energy on this creep, but i see where your coming from. Maybe you can get all dressed up and look incredible sexy, then flirt with him and if he responds to you have him buy you an drink then throw it at him, and walk away.
2006-08-20 11:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth embarrasing yourself over, because that is what will be the end result. People may laugh at the time, but you'll be 'the girl who' and for what? He'll look like Mr. Stud Muffin if you lose your temper with him in this way. In other words, you will look like you really care about him and he has got one over on you because you lost your temper. Don't give him that satisfaction. Hold your head up high, and ignore him. In a few weeks time, you won't feel like this and you will be glad that you didn't make yourself look like a jealous,angry woman (which is really not a good look, believe me). If you must do something, write him a letter telling him what an a s s he is and then burn it. You will feel a bit better. Protect your reputation and your dignity by refusing to stoop to his level. Good luck.
2006-08-20 11:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him.
If ya'll really weren't going out and you were to do something like dump a drink over his head then you'd either slapped, Or him and his friends would wind up making fun of you talking about how crazy you are because the" two of you weren't offically going out and blah blah this crazy trick just comes up and dumps a drink all up on me"
I'm not saying you're crazy trick but I've heard people say things like that...If he's a sleazy skank than he probably would wind up making fun of you or maybe even hitting you for it. Just suck it up and move on...Don't be hurt by him...you can do better
2006-08-20 11:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that, it may make you feel better for a split second but other people will just laugh at you and think your a nut job, plus he'll get off on the fact that you were so bothered and his mates will probably pat him on the back for having a girl go to so much effort (meaning he'll act like the stud that got to hurt you).
The best thing you can do is ignore the fact he is there, act oblivious to him and have a great time.....make sure you have fun, laugh, dance, look good etc. Silence is golden, thats the best way to get at him, act like you don't even know him.
2006-08-20 11:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirl80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back at him is to make him regret what he lost when he let you go. Look your very best without letting it all hang out. Be charming to everyone. If you run into him just say a casual hello and move on. You want to let him know that he meant nothing to you, he amounts less that the dirt under your shoes. This way you retain your dignity and show him that unlike him, you have class.
Throwing a drink at him would be extremely bad manners and would further demean you. In the end your reputation would be hurt instead of his.
2006-08-20 11:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Celeste A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throwing a drink at him would just make you look a little crazy. The best "revenge" would to be really sweet and nice to him when you see him. Dress really hot, and if he starts talking with you, or if you talk to him, be all smiley and cheery and make sure you tell him how busy and happy you are and how you're "so glad it didn't work out between you because then you would never have met so and so (insert name here of imaginary boyfriend)" Then just say "gotta run, there's someone I want to talk to" and leave him. It will drive him crazy, to think that you "got away" from him!
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2006-08-20 11:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by supersuzym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to get back at him without you looking like a b***h. No matter what you do, he will look like the one who was picked on by you. The best way you can try to get back is to act as if you barely know him.
When you see him, give him a stiff, but polite smile and have a far away look in you eye - like you are deep in thought as to his identity. Simply give him this smile and look and maybe say "hello" and that is it. Don't show any emotion or recognition.
If you do not give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt, he is the one who will look like an idiot.
2006-08-20 11:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing is the best. Just ignore him.
There is no any satisfaction to get even or act with Hollywood style.
You have enough of the as**l - is no fun to see him again anyway.
You are lackey to meeting him for a while not for a years.
Forget, forget and forget.
2006-08-20 11:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
Throwing a drink at him would just reinforce his belief that you deserved what you got from him. Better to find a new guy much better than this one and show up with the new guy someplace where you know this guy will be, and make him realize what he lost by two-timing you.
2006-08-20 11:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, sweetie.
He's not worth your time and trouble.
Did you know that throwing a drink at somebody in public is assault, and he could have you arrested or sue you for that?
Just be sure to have somebody better looking with you, if you go to the places he hangs out.
2006-08-20 11:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋