Family & Relationships - 18 August 2006

I just moved to a new city and met this wonderful guy. He is sweet (he came to my house to introduce himself) and athletic (I love playing sports) and everyone I know is telling me he likes me and thinks I'm hot and what ever. I want to ask him out but I'm worried he'll turn me down b/c I'm not like the other girls around here. I'm kind of punk and the other girls who've said they've dated him are preps. I also want to find a way other than just asking or passing a note...need idea's people.

2006-08-18 15:50:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have really tried, been to marriage counseling, changed many things about myself to accommodate my wife, etc. My wife has left me and taken our two kids (0.3 and 6 years) and said she will not return unless I do what she wants only.

Nothing I do helps. I change something about myself and then she wants me to change something else. There are many things about her I want changed, but I have no leverage except that I am still paying all the bills, and she is racking them up considerably. I haven't played the 'cutoff-the-finances' card yet, but I am growing weary of this extortion and really hating my wife for depriving me of my kids. I know with a divorce, I probably won't see them alot, but at least I will see them sometimes. What can I do? I am nearing the end of my patience. I want my family back, but not my wife. What can a man do?

2006-08-18 15:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well we have been going out for a while but alot of girls like him sooo that scares me what should i do???? please help me i realy like him!!

2006-08-18 15:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been on and off with a guy for 6 years, pretty much always on. i have really bad trust issues because in the first six months of our relationship he cheated on me. we were both still in high school and not serious yet but it really has affected my trust for him even 6 years later. i know i love him very much and when i'm not with him i feel incomplete. we share all of the same interests, and always are doing something fun. we are both in college but a few weeks ago he admitted to me that he had "made out" with a girl in his program a lot of times. i had suspected there had been something going on with them because i had seen them at school together and it looked more than friendly. he denied anything happening the whole time and told me things like i am a psycho or crazy for thinking he would do that to me. the girl was engaged at the time and is now married but he is going back to school in a week to be in classes with her again. it makes me really sad..what should i do?

2006-08-18 15:50:17 · 5 answers · asked by rochae84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sweetest answer gets 10 points

2006-08-18 15:49:59 · 53 answers · asked by Johan 4 in Singles & Dating

heres the deal,i was talking to him ( aguy ilike on phone) then he said 1 sec iwana go to bathroom,he turned on tv so LOUD ididnt know why,then suddenly iheared him fart sooooo loud (Quiff) and im so grossed by him now,what should ido?

2006-08-18 15:49:05 · 21 answers · asked by Miss Green 1 in Singles & Dating

Does size really matter?

2006-08-18 15:48:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, i'm a 15 year old girl in a relationship with a guy the same age. we have been going out for about a month now. we met in summer school and now that it's over, we barely see each other. we keep in touch on msn and through the phone but lately he doesn't seem to be talking much. i don't think he is very busy with anything else, but just not talking. i know that he is shy because he has told me so, that in relationships he's much quieter, but i'm afraid our relationship is.. fading. i don't know what he's thinking a lot of the time, and would like to talk to him about this, but i don't know how to, without sounding too possessive and/or clingy. i was going out with a player before this, and so did he, and i think because of this, it's hard for me to trust him totally.. all the time. and i don't think he trusts me sometimes either. i don't know.. our relationship is still very weak. & he used to 'test' me. so wht do you think he's thinking/ is he still interested ?

2006-08-18 15:47:45 · 16 answers · asked by kaaay 1 in Singles & Dating

should i tell him
stay in denial
lie my but off
write him a love note or what i'll accept anything to make him notice me!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-18 15:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a nice Christian guy in yahoo answers and now we are living together. He was a former homosexual. The problem is that everytime
before sex when I kiss with passionately--he vomits. I asked him--why?
He told that he ate something bad. But I suspect that the homosexual
demons haven't yet left him. Two days ago one of his buddie came(who happens to be his ex-sex partner but now a saved Christian) and I discussed the problem with him. I suggested that maybe we french and see the effect. That guy also vomited after the kiss. Now I am really disturbed by the incidents and feeling that the guys should be kept apart for the time-being. Please, any suggestion.

2006-08-18 15:46:54 · 15 answers · asked by christian_wondergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 15:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by bootlepete 2 in Singles & Dating

Im moving to Virginia in 2 weeks and I need someone to suggest what things i should check out or do. Im kinda scared to move cause i dont want to leave all my friends but ive been down there a thousand times and STILL havent made any friends. Im moving to the Gloucester County Area
i need something fun to do besides go to the library...is anyone having a party in 2 wks...lol jk no really are you...but yeah i dont want to go to the library. i wanna have fun!!!!!!

2006-08-18 15:46:31 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2006-08-18 15:46:19 · 1 answers · asked by katie n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 15:45:49 · 6 answers · asked by melissachillinout 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he is too big for me and everytime we have sex I cant walk for a few days, I went to the doctor because, I thought it was something wrong but, it wasnt he is just a very large man, and I am a thick woman, I dont know what to do because, it is good but bad later, I love my husband, but this is really painful for me, what can I do? it almost makes me want to get in a poly relationship...at least I would have some time to heal.

2006-08-18 15:45:49 · 35 answers · asked by Let's be real 1 in Marriage & Divorce

MY HUSBAND AND I WILL BE MARRIED 25 YEAR'S AND WE DECIDED TO RENEW OUR VOWS. WE DIDN'T HAVE A BIG WEDDING THE FIRST TIME. NOW I AM PLANING TO HAVE THE WEDDING I DIDN'T HAVE. BUT WOULD IT STILL BE RIGHT TO WEAR THE WEDDING DRESS I ALWAYS DREAMED OF .

2006-08-18 15:45:00 · 26 answers · asked by SANDY 1 in Weddings

2006-08-18 15:44:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He left me 1 time in the past. Now he says: "I ve never let u out of my mind" Actually I believe in him. I feel love him than ever before. Is that right wrong?

2006-08-18 15:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Singles & Dating

My firend who has boyfriend is constantly giving her number out to other guys,she even told me she might break up with him right before (more like 3 hours later) gave a another guy her number.I am becoming friend swith her boyfriend and he is the sweetest nicest guy i meat in a long time and I'm total crushing on him.My friend treats him like dirt but not to his face should I tell him what's going on.I really like him .Please don't judge too critically but after they breakup I would totally consider dating him .Ideas and opinions welcome.

2006-08-18 15:43:59 · 26 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 15:43:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i started to have feelings for this guy that was one of my good firends. we were both ok with this until ou friends interfered and this went to hell. the last days of school i asked him if he felt the same for me but after that i told me not to say anyting cause i was scared. on graduation we ignored each other put shared many glances at each other. it's been about month should i try talking to him again or just drop it. help!!!!

2006-08-18 15:43:18 · 1 answers · asked by c0nsuel0_06 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-18 15:42:48 · 41 answers · asked by jannette b 1 in Family

love is....no religion... ytue to youreselve true top nature true to love only u know the truth./..

2006-08-18 15:41:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and kinda like a big gurl
how do you approacha guy being so shy and not wanting to make the your attraction to him so obvious? hes like someone you see in the hallway at skool but you've never spoken to him before?

2006-08-18 15:41:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am really bad at flirting, i need some tips please. I want this guy to notice me but i don't really know how to flirt, please someone help me.

2006-08-18 15:40:13 · 5 answers · asked by cuban_girl123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The little gay horse,
Drives a pink porche,
He eats haggis,
And puked on Paris,
In NewYork,
They gave him off pork,
Now he is in bed,
And half dead.

2006-08-18 15:40:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am now out over $10,000.00 in legal fees, etc. If I sue the man she had the affair with my chances of winning are very remote since there is no alienation of affection law in my state. I could sue him for intentional infliction of emotional harm or invasion of privacy but, again, my chances of winning are remote.

However, if I don't win I want to advise him that if he doesn't reimburse me my legal fees I will mass mail a letter to his business associates, colleagues, neighbors, etc. outlining everything that happened. I understand that the "truth" is an absolute defense to libel or slander. However, my question is this: Could I be sued for extortion or blackmail? I don't want to do anything immoral or illegal. But, I should not be out the legal fees since I'm not the one who committed adultery, abandoned our home, kids, and marriage.

2006-08-18 15:38:59 · 30 answers · asked by TB23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friends said girls never make the move but i dont get why

2006-08-18 15:38:44 · 7 answers · asked by mar.™ 3 in Singles & Dating

Im walking down the street, you are aproaching on the other side I whistle a smooth soft wolf wistle just loud enough for you to hear are you?,A.. afronted by this and find it infuriating B.. is it something that might put a smile on your face and a spring in your step knowing someone noticed that you you look fine todayC.. find the attention totally upleasant and embarrassing and confront me for my poor manners .

2006-08-18 15:37:39 · 46 answers · asked by slick 4 in Singles & Dating

movies such as uncle Buck and EdTv and telivison shows like grounded for life seem to have done that.
dont get me wrong unmarried women are portayed to in a negative way.the only difference is that the bachlors dont feel sorry for them selves.

2006-08-18 15:36:52 · 2 answers · asked by ccameronbeaty78 3 in Marriage & Divorce