2006-08-18 15:42:48 · 41 answers · asked by jannette b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If they take after you, you could be a grandma at 36.
2006-08-18 15:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
perhaps you ask this question to get some reassurance.
good on you for having the babies, and not getting an abortion. that is the action of a loving mother.
Do your children and yourself the service of no more children. At the very least until you are in an emotionally, financially stable marriage. given these three all of you for a while (as in more than a decade).
It's a harsh lesson at 22 to realize what you have gotten yourself into. But, there you are, and you CAN make it work--brilliantly.
You do not need a man in your life--for your sake. If all three of these babies have the same daddy, and you are married, then focus on being a family.
If not, then focus on being a family, and do not think you need a man. it all has to slow down for you at some point, that will happen when you make it slow down.
2006-08-18 15:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet that you're one very busy person! No-one has the right to tell you if it's "bad" and if you're a "bad person" to have 3 children at the age of 22. I feel that you are asking this question as you maybe unsure of your abilities at the present time. To be 22 and have 3 children requires strength, determination and alot of love! If I were you, I'd sit on the couch, take a deep breath and congratulate yourself. You deserve it!
2006-08-18 17:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being a good or bad person is not based on the number of kids you have or what age you had them. Don't let society fool you in to thinking you are a bad person for having or wanting to keep all of your children.
2006-08-18 15:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could never be a bad person for keeping your kids they are your flesh and blood and its's a wonderful thing that you have three beautiful healthy kids I also don't think you are a bad person you just think you got yourself in a couple of unpredictable situations and don't let people make you believe you are a bed person
2006-08-22 10:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by blessed2980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad that you have 3 children at the age of 22. I wish you the best of luck!! Handling 3 kids at that young of an age is tough!
2006-08-18 16:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Z87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur a good mom y would u feel like u r a bad mom. And if u r thinking that u made a mistake on raising ur kids then u shouldnt have had them. im srry but its the truth. Just think if u love them just foreget dat ur a bad mom, just tink if some thing happened to them. If u worrie then ur not a abad mom. I have cousins that have had them way before u.
2006-08-18 16:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Hispanic Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more common than you may think. No you are not a bad person. In fact you are a very good person for keeping your children. Your children are a blessing from GOD. I wish you the best of luck with them. They Love you even when you feel like no one else does. NEVER think you are a bad person because you have children.
2006-08-18 15:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by grace3940 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. I'm sure that you love all your little ones. and as long as you are caring for them to the best of your ability and support them emotionally and financially your being a GREAT person.
Your character is what makes you a good person...not your "birth count". and screw anyone else if they said you aren't a good person because of this!
it angers me that society has placed this type of questionable judgment on women because of how old, or young she is and how many kids she has..and how many fathers are involved.
there are PLENTY of men that have gotten half a dozen different women pregnant, then skip their child support payments and yet the world looks harsher on the struggling mother of 3 that has to work 4 jobs to feed the kids that his jerk gave her then refused to help raise!
be strong! be confident in yourself! your babies opinion of you is all that matters hon, not anyone elses! and loving those 3 children will let them know you'll always be there for them, and THAT is something they will never forget!
*peace*
2006-08-18 16:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you think you are a bad person for keeping the children you brought into this world?If you can't take care of them or don't want to thats different!There are places that can help you out.
2006-08-18 15:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had four at 21 and 5 at 23 no that don't make you a bad person at all
2006-08-18 15:48:33 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋