I met a nice Christian guy in yahoo answers and now we are living together. He was a former homosexual. The problem is that everytime
before sex when I kiss with passionately--he vomits. I asked him--why?
He told that he ate something bad. But I suspect that the homosexual
demons haven't yet left him. Two days ago one of his buddie came(who happens to be his ex-sex partner but now a saved Christian) and I discussed the problem with him. I suggested that maybe we french and see the effect. That guy also vomited after the kiss. Now I am really disturbed by the incidents and feeling that the guys should be kept apart for the time-being. Please, any suggestion.
2006-08-18 15:46:54 · 15 answers · asked by christian_wondergirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your pastor.I wouldn't rush into anything like "sex".That something so special that when you do get married you'll regret not waiting.God Bless you and good luck.
2006-08-18 15:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've brainwashed both of them into thinking that what they are doing goes against your god.
leave them as they were, as homosexuals, and i'm sure they'd be fine. ask them. i bet they didn't throw up kissing each other.
christians are fcuk'd. seriously. this whole idea of god telling you how to live through 'the good book' is retarded. there is no right and wrong. live your life however you see fit as long as you don't get in the way of anybody else doing the same.
stupid god.
holy wars are nothing more than grown men fighting over their imaginary friends.
2006-08-18 21:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yo. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh. Why do you keep posting the same thing over and over? Are you guys also living with your four kids? Maybe he's overwhelmed with the munchkins. And, according to your profile you have one that's only a week old...that'll do it.
Men get nervous about family and kids.
Not to pry, but is the newest one his? That could also be a cause for concern.
TALK TO HIM INSTEAD OF POSTING HERE. WE CAN'T SOLVE THIS ISSUE only give advice.
Good Luck!
2006-08-18 16:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop living with him and stop having sex with him! You have four kids, for heaven's sake! Well, for your sake and THEIR sake.
You know what the Bible says on that.
I believe homosexuals can be reformed definitely, but that doesn't mean I'd be friends with - or want him to be friends with - his former "sex buddy."
Plus you frenched him too? Pray you're released from your bondage.
2006-08-18 19:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wager will be that they have got been through religious de-programing. this is a type of psychological treatment that the psychological community would not help. Vomiting would probably be because of the type of de-programing that shows sexually arousing pictures and bring about vomiting through drugs. For a good get mutually of this, see the action picture "A Clockwork Orange." in very truth, this, or any type of de-programing, would not artwork. your persons favor to come across a church which will settle for his or her sexual selection. they could also come across a therapist which could actually help them come to words with their sexuality. they could settle for his or her love for an further and in no way enable the reviews of particular church homes cause them to vomit for feeling thoughts in the direction of those that they love. I purely realized that it is probably a shaggy dog tale, yet i have actual heard of this taking position formerly. I nevertheless stand on my previous reaction that de-programing is incorrect.
2016-11-30 19:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make this guy something that he is not. he will always be a homosexual. my suggestion to you is to let this guy go back to the way he is because he can not change overnight. I think he move in with you just to see if he can have a love relationship with a woman so let him go back to his male lover.
2006-08-18 16:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by cmaymay26facaringperson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have halitosis or something. try brushin your tongue or see a dentist about it. If you get the same results, then maybe the thought of kissing a female literally makes him sick 2 his stomach.
2006-08-18 15:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by waycrazyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you coming between 2 lovers? jeez women gay guys just cant be saved....they are gay its no crime...it people like you no offesne the make such a big deal out of gay people and always trying to save them and all that gay people dont feel comfortable around us people.....they are people they can save them selfs if they want to....... just break up with him and leave them to alone and tell him to follow his heart.....
for you sake i hope your kidding because this is messed up.....and if you are a devoted christain then why are you living with a man unmarried?? and all thats not very christain.....
2006-08-18 15:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that is messed up. maybe he is trying to be heterosexual because of his religion, yet does have homo feelings. that is pretty disturbing to have someone vomit everytime you kiss them. maybe he is not 4 you, or something is not being said!
2006-08-18 15:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just ask this like 5 times yesterday? He is into guys and it's not a demon possessing him!!
2006-08-18 15:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋