My firend who has boyfriend is constantly giving her number out to other guys,she even told me she might break up with him right before (more like 3 hours later) gave a another guy her number.I am becoming friend swith her boyfriend and he is the sweetest nicest guy i meat in a long time and I'm total crushing on him.My friend treats him like dirt but not to his face should I tell him what's going on.I really like him .Please don't judge too critically but after they breakup I would totally consider dating him .Ideas and opinions welcome.
2006-08-18 15:43:59 · 26 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First,I am not planning to break them up my friend was talking about breaking up with him beacuse it was a hassle to date him and then she went on about how she thought this other guy a friend of said boyfriend was hot,it looks like she is trading up for a better looking (in her opinion not mine ) older guy.
2006-08-18 15:55:12 · update #1
she is giving her number out to other guys,her boyfriend is kept in the dark about these flirting giving her number to other guys activities.
2006-08-18 16:56:46 · update #2
Umm don't tell on her. For real. Once there broken up which sounds like it will be sooner rather than later start dating.
2006-08-18 15:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you are going to tell him just so that you can date him then thats a bad idea. It might just backfire on you. If they arent going to end up being together forever, and you think he is someone that you would like to date, then why not wait until it is over between the two of them?
Id also like to add that guys are a dime a dozen, and if this girl is really your friend then you will let them work out their own problems. If you have a problem with something that she is doing then you need to talk to her about it, not go behind her back and lose her as a friend.
2006-08-18 22:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Judi V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be sticky.Women always want something once they see someone else is interested,she's gonna want him back if u 2 hook up.Don't tell him anything,thats between them.When/if they break up don't rush in take yr time ,ask yr friend if it's cool.If she's really yr friend she won't care according to the way she treats him she wont care anyway.Wait till everything w/them is resolved don't try to jump in the middle it will never work that way.Be patient.
2006-08-18 22:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by cutieb7681 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you value your friendship? Cause if you're not already involved with this guy - my advice would be NO. No guy (unless you're in love) is worth breaking up a perfectly good friendship over. Period. And that's what would happen. Believe me, there are other nice, sweet guys that you will totally crush on.
2006-08-18 22:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by tootie_ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong of him to pass her number around. Tell him to stop.
She just want to ***** about him to let out her stress / frustration / whatever. Your friend may still like him. Ask her if she's still keen to hold on to this relationship. At least, you know where you're standing. And she's really too much, then tell him about her.
Let them have a clean breakup before you proceed with him.
2006-08-18 22:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your friend your feelings for this guy, and ask her if she would mind if you went out with him. Usually honesty is best. However, you don't want to be the "rebound" girlfriend. Time to continue the friendship between the two of you first would be your best bet. Good Luck
2006-08-18 22:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Denise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to find out about his lousy gf another way, you telling him and being interested in him might show as an ulterior motive to your so-called friend. I suggest asking your friend where she and this guy stand and for now just try to be this guys friend. If the chemistry between you and this guy is there, then it will work out. :D Success!
2006-08-18 22:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they say bros before hoes, but I think you should go for the guy.
You will have to risk your friendship with the girl though, but she isn't that great of a person.
You could have a relationship and don't tell her, that would be fun and exciting.
2006-08-18 22:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just wanna smack some sense into your friend. I say go ahead and date the guy. You seem like a decent person with morals. The guy deserves you more than your friend.
2006-08-18 22:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by -♡Pookie♡- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do be eager and just jump on him when she says it is over. Yes go for it, but start it off as a friendship thing with him. your friend right now is just looking for thrills and if u really feel as though he needs to know, write him a secret letter to give him some hints on what is going on. if he does confont your friend and breaks up with her, go for it.
2006-08-18 22:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by silentasalamb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋