Family & Relationships - 15 August 2006

My bf and I have been dating for 6 years and he says he isn't ready to be married. He says he needs another 3-4 years before he will be ready to think about marriage. He says he knows he wants to marry me, but he isn't ready...not even ready to get engaged. Does this mean he doesn't love me enough to marry me or what?

He is in his late 20's and I am in my mid 20's...he has had a stable job for 3 years, and is financially stable from what his friends tell me...and I just graduated from college.

2006-08-15 10:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 10:45:52 · 27 answers · asked by allycatt34 1 in Singles & Dating

telll a guy you likes all about your sex life, or do you think that would scare him off?

2006-08-15 10:45:25 · 5 answers · asked by Reverand Ray 4 in Singles & Dating

You have now just found out that your child is safe and well ... but YOU have caused pain to a person that is a compolsive lire..What are you going to do ..this person is now dieing due to your actions?

Let the game begin.

2006-08-15 10:44:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like this guy, Dylan, but I'm not sure if he likes me too. we'er friends, so I know he knows me. But how can I tell if he likes me? And Whats a good way to tell him I like him back? (Ps. I have a locker, and so dose he, so If it involves a locker, now you know)

2006-08-15 10:44:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Friends

2006-08-15 10:44:32 · 21 answers · asked by moojo 1 in Friends

We were together before and he ended it to be with what I tought was a friedn, but that is a whole nother story, anyway I do not want to get hurt again and he has promised me it will not happen he is great with my kids and we have bought a car and a house together, but I am still so afraid that he will just up and leave and it is causing an issue with us. He tells me that he is commited to me and does not wnat anyone else but he does want to label us as girlfriend and boyfriend. Is this something that I should worry about??? he is even made plans for the furture with me and my kids by the way. Please guys give me insight to your mind, I am very confused

2006-08-15 10:44:14 · 2 answers · asked by redhairedindian 2 in Singles & Dating

i am afraid to have sex and i don't know why, i think i'll never have sex, i want to, i'm just afraid

2006-08-15 10:44:05 · 6 answers · asked by beans 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 6'0 tall and I weigh about 170. I have a slightly muscular body. Does my body sound good?

2006-08-15 10:44:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well this is gonna be kinnda weird but i figured i would ask you guys.. well ive had alot of g/fs in the past and slept with a few of them.. but the last girlfriend i was with wouldnt have sex with me because my unit was to big.. and my other partners i had i could never go all the way in without them complaining about.. is there something i can do about it? or like do i just have to deal with it.. im not in anyway complaining about it.. but it just bothers me that she was to scared to do it and now im kinnda self concious about it....

2006-08-15 10:44:00 · 5 answers · asked by Juggernaut 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 10:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by misuraca_cm 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many couples out there would love to have more sex with their partner, but your "in the mood" cycles are always on opposite schedules?

2006-08-15 10:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by kandekizzez 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i always lose my boy friends because i dont no what to do!

2006-08-15 10:43:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you still hit on a woman after she's told you she's married?Do you like to flirt with married women just to see if you can get with her and WHY?

2006-08-15 10:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My BF and I have been in a committed relationship for 6 yrs. He is going through depression and says he constantly worries about me. He can't tell me exactly why he worries. I think it is because he works mega hrs. and worries about what I do when he is away. I DO NOT cheat. But his ex wife did for 2 yrs before he found out and divorced her. I do not want to be judged by his ex. I realize he is in a vulnerable state right now. He told me he did not want a relationship, I made arrangements to leave but he begged me to stay. He has apologized and told me he loves me and is in love with me. I am still undecided about what to do. I do love him and I am understanding but I don't want to live in an emotionaly unstable state. since he has told me that he was blocking his feelings because of worry and anxiety he has been clinging and wanting sex almost every time we get the chance. Now he wants to spend all of his free time with me. What is going on?

2006-08-15 10:42:35 · 9 answers · asked by Len 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to be home by 10:00 and in bed by eleven.

2006-08-15 10:42:09 · 16 answers · asked by WIDE OUTxx0017 3 in Family

Here's the deal....I am a 24 year old in law school, which means I don't work much. My brothers are young men that could get a job full time if they wanted. My grandmother gives me money almost every week and doesn't give them any. Somehow I feel guilty. Should I be? Should I refuse the money and label her gestures "favoritism"?

2006-08-15 10:42:00 · 14 answers · asked by darshunk 2 in Family

i miss my other family sooo much they live in colorado. i cry every day. my family here in cali is so religiouse and close minded and they never have a fun time they're always so serious. i miss them so much their jokes and just what a fun time I had. how can i make it easier for me? im getting depressed.

2006-08-15 10:41:59 · 19 answers · asked by kittypurry 3 in Family

myi fiance and i just split after being together 6 years!
now we are no longer friends even.
we know the same people and live ina very small town
moving out of town is not a option for me, but i did move out of the home. please help!

2006-08-15 10:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by SHEFOX 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeking ideas for revenge on a teenage girl that has been faking a pregancy and truly ruining several people's lives. She is told three guys that she was pregnant and that they were the father.

2006-08-15 10:40:32 · 31 answers · asked by Chainsawmom 5 in Family

I'm a 28 year old Firefighter from Southern California, and I wanted to get a basic understanding with women about what it is with Firemen they find so attractive and whatnot? I know the uniform thing is obvious but is that it, or is there more to it?

2006-08-15 10:40:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all the info. in the world!!!!

2006-08-15 10:39:29 · 10 answers · asked by MissLalis 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 10:39:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-15 10:37:55 · 37 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

why dont guys get it when your giving them signs that u like them. Are do i have to spell it out to him.

2006-08-15 10:37:43 · 16 answers · asked by tanisha w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-15 10:36:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel so down and today is my Birthday? I just feel like blah ya know.

2006-08-15 10:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by LILmizleO 2 in Friends

Ive been dating a married man. From the start he told me: his marriage was a sham, it was for a green card. Its almost over and he will be divorcing soon." I did not belive him. I started to. He calls me 4 times a day. We go everywhere Ive been to his house and after thoroughly checking for women items, and photos I have found none. His brother is his roomate. After a month of investigating I spent the night w/him. That morning I used his phone since I lost mine, I did not realize i did this but a call came in and I hit the answer button. His wife heard us. She came to his house. He let her in! I said I was a friend. She went biserk, he called the cops, she cut him! I left. He found me walking he apologzed over and over, said she was lying their marriage is fake, she is crazy, he hasnt slept with her in 9 months. Hes putting a restraining order, and he wants me. Not her. I told him take me home. He keeps calling and apologizing, he says he wants me to come back. I want 2 believe him.

2006-08-15 10:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by Romina 1 in Singles & Dating

[This is a joke, she asked what question I asked and then suggested that, so being the smart donkey that I am, I posted it.]

2006-08-15 10:36:16 · 7 answers · asked by Joker 7 in Singles & Dating

I am totally convinced I will catch something if I start dating. Are these Sex TD's as common as I think they are?

2006-08-15 10:34:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating