Family & Relationships - 10 August 2006

she's talking divorce, don't touch me, this has changed our marriage, i'm not sure i want to be married to you anymore.....

i asked to pray with her last night and she said she was doing her own praying.

i spoke to our ex-pastor yesterday and discussed this and he felt she was wrong and said if a husband is given a phone to use at work, that's legitimate for work and she should understand.

i also asked him about women coming into my office and he said it was fine unless i shut the door and i always keep the door open.

i've invited my wife to come for lunch, coffee, etc. and to help me move my office when the time comes, so she can see all my stuff and feel comfortable about it.

i went to a counselor at work and he said i should not even have llet this go on this far.

i don't want a divorce, i don't want my children taken and i don't want to work each week just to pay her child support.

any suggestions/ Please pray.

2006-08-10 02:57:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wont it make you late for the church ?

2006-08-10 02:57:21 · 21 answers · asked by delboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have some guys say they will come see me here from other countries. I live in Philippines and cannot travel to these countries. I wonder how many are serious to come.

2006-08-10 02:57:09 · 39 answers · asked by maryjoy m 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm from a different country, and it seems like girls in UK wear something more showy than what we have...
I'm with a bf who's English, and I usually wear one piece dress on a date. I don't want to be overly sexy.
How do you feel when a girl is showing her shoulders and belly all of the time?! Is that a plus or a minus...or nothing?

2006-08-10 02:55:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-10 02:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by juicy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-10 02:55:03 · 10 answers · asked by angel s 1 in Friends

2006-08-10 02:53:42 · 9 answers · asked by adriano 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband fnd a txt in my phne frm a frnd who ws mkng fun of the guy she was mad at it said "dnt u wish ur boyfriend was hot lke fast?, dnt cha?" so he took it as me hvng a boyfrnd whn i dont! and he wnt drop the subject he wnt listen to the truth frm me, and it hurts so bad. I hve explained myself and dnt knw wht else to do. we hve been married 2 yrs. i shldnt be dealing wth this. he has been mean to me . if i was hiding anything why would i let him c my phne? he has no evidence of me hvng a boyfriend its just plain stupid. i dont have one but he wnt listen to a word i say hes stuck on him being right and me wrong. please help me , i dnt knw wht else to do. I love him so much. it kills me inside to knw tht he doesnt believe me. the txt was a joke frm my friend nothing more.

2006-08-10 02:53:34 · 8 answers · asked by 86Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-10 02:53:32 · 6 answers · asked by xieri 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm much more of a straight to the point kind of girl...foreplay is great but I love penetration...what should I do? My husband LOVES kissing and it just makes me uncomfortable and turns me off...it's not just him...I've NEVER liked kissing

2006-08-10 02:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be the maid of honor for my sisters wedding, I have never been a maid of honor so I was wondering what duties they typically do for the wedding and bride.

2006-08-10 02:52:53 · 18 answers · asked by stefs86 2 in Weddings

And in January I met this great guy,but he is wanting to get married and I am scared,What do I did?

2006-08-10 02:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well you can picture the scenario: During a subway ride, a woman and I do the old look at each other in the eye for a few seconds (Flirting, I guess?), She then proceeds to twirl her hair...any ideas? Thanks!

2006-08-10 02:52:13 · 6 answers · asked by Innovator 2 in Singles & Dating

What is your favorite.....
song?
food?
movie?
color?
sport?
college team?
NFL team?
MLB team?

2006-08-10 02:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by *~*CrossCountryStar*~* 1 in Friends

Is he/she your "Target".......your "Victoria's Secret?" .........your "Burger King?" ..........your "Jiffy Lube?"...... or your "Quickie Mart?"

There are million shops and stores out there. Where would you find your heart throb? (And don't forget the why.......inquiring minds wanna know!)

2006-08-10 02:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 in Friends

i was given a cell phone at work and came home with it and my wife was upset because she felt it was another way for my work (which is very unobstrusive so far) to keep a tie to me.

She's been very jeolous of the job and has come to my office to go through my desk and papers because a lady stopped her one day shopping and said she had visited me in my office several times. It was a high school friend of my wifes and although it was a business meeting, my wife was very upset over that. This situation has caused the jeolosy.

back to the phone. the phone had belonged to another worker and last evening a lady sent a text message to the phone and it sounded kind of provocative. my wife hit the roof. she kept the phone with her and said she was going to call this woman and find out if she knew me.

while my wife had the phone with her my boss called and some other women called the phone.

she wants me to give it back and say i can't use the phone.

what should i or can i do.

2006-08-10 02:51:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here is the thing… about a year ago I had an affair with my best friends husband… I know I was completely and totally wrong for what I did! I admit to that… however about a month ago accusations were made that I was trying to contact her husband again. However I know that I wasn’t… he is the last person I want to talk to… it was a really messy situation after the fact… to let you know briefly he told so many lies on me that it wasn’t funny… and then told people that he never did care about me that all he wanted was sex! Okay well anyways when I was confronted about the phone calls I was honest and told everyone that no it wasn’t me… nothing has been said about since then, but then last night this little girl that I know who is only 15 came up to me and told me she had been talking to the wife of the guy and she said to tell me that she knows that I was the one that was calling her husband and that she wasn’t stupid that she knew that still wanted him but I needed to move on and

2006-08-10 02:50:51 · 14 answers · asked by Help??? 2 in Singles & Dating

is that right u think ?

2006-08-10 02:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by Viper 1 in Friends

2006-08-10 02:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by kingsleysea 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been asking other people in diffrent countries what they think of us ..what do you think of them?

2006-08-10 02:50:08 · 22 answers · asked by aquaris01975 3 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice. I was in a relationship with a married man for over a year. His marriage was in trouble (or so he said), he told me he loved me, wanted to be with me, blah, blah, blah. He knew I was a lonely, vulnerable single mom. Of course, he decided not to see me anymore, confessed to his wife what happened, and decided to work on his marriage. I have since talked to his wife and she told me that he never loved me and he was just using me for sex. I am completely devasted. I am so embarrased and ashamed. I have found out that his wife is going around town talking bad about me to people we mutually know. I have never been involved with a married man before and will never do it again. The problem is I don't know how to pick up the pieces of my life. I have fallen into a depression and it scares me because I have a little girl to take care of. Does anyone have any helpful advice on how to get over this?

2006-08-10 02:49:58 · 27 answers · asked by hurricanebabe73 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-10 02:49:49 · 1 answers · asked by landis 1 in Friends

They totally enjoy my company and cannot get enough of me. It is possibly because I am one cup of Mr. GQ mixed in with another cup of Mr. Cool?

2006-08-10 02:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by Bedroom Celebrity 3 in Singles & Dating

I have my reasons!

2006-08-10 02:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by dom23ipswich 1 in Singles & Dating

If so did it work out for you?
How long had you "known" them for before you did this?

2006-08-10 02:48:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-10 02:47:57 · 54 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

2006-08-10 02:47:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how s the best way for me to go up to a woman and ask her out when im shy and god knows why iam scared to do it how can i get over being this way?

2006-08-10 02:47:46 · 12 answers · asked by jamescoffman1978 2 in Singles & Dating

And how do I know he really loves me when he doesn't say it? He says he's more of an action person.

2006-08-10 02:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by THICKUMS 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad walked out on me when I was two. He walked out again when I was three, four and until I walked out on him at sixteen. Now I have b/f John who is lovely but should I try to find out my Dad's problem before he dies?

2006-08-10 02:47:36 · 12 answers · asked by poppy vox 4 in Other - Family & Relationships