Family & Relationships - 10 August 2006

wel iv bin with my boyfriend for sumtime now nd e says he loves me but i get the feeling that hes jst sayin that, i mean hes sweet 2 me nd says dat he wud neva hurt me bt i dnt reli no i gt da feelin that hes gna find sum1 bera than me or worse cheat on me, its happened 2 me in da pst nd i dnt fink dat i wud be strong enough dis time cos he makes me feel safe nd e neva says a bad word about me, es a yr older than me nd always loks at lasses wen dey walk by..nd i no that i shouldnt worry abwt dat cos mst lads do dat anyway bt this feelin dat i ave as bin lyk dis 4 sum time nw nd i jst need 2 no how he reli feels abwt me nd if its as much as i do abwt im, iv neva felt lyk dis wiv any1 bt i no deep dwn dat i lv im nd always wil bt i wud prefer 2 no if es telin me da truth cos relationships need truth.

2006-08-10 03:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by lauren b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-10 03:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by Disco dude 1 in Singles & Dating

When me and my husband get into an argument he using profanity and says very mean things towards me. I very rarely raise my voice to him. Things have never ever taken a physical turn and I never see that happening, but sometimes words can hurt more than fists. After we are done he apolagizes for what he said and says he doesn't know why he reacts that wa and he wants to stop, but after three years I don't see a change. How much is to much and should I do something about it?

2006-08-10 03:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Having ur bf kiss u on the cheek, or u kissing him on the cheek?
having ur first kiss, or your 150th kiss?
holding hands or hugging?
saying love ya at the end of convos, or you're hot?
going out with someone for 11 months, or dating 8 diff. boys in 11 months?
sweet emails or sweet notes?
sry i was just wondering'

2006-08-10 03:19:29 · 5 answers · asked by *HOTTIE* 1 in Friends

i've done it - i kissed another guy yesterday - a guy who i work with - my boyfriend knows him but doesn't know him - if you get me - i'm wracked with guilt - this guy is in a relationship with a child - as am i - its not worth it - i know that now before i go any further - a little advice to all who are thinking of it - you end up feeling ashamed, getting drunk with guilt and almost confessing your diabolical sins to your boyfriend. And the thing is we nearly got caught - and i still have to go back to work with him tonight and i feel very confussed and depressed - honestly its just not worth it!!!! so why aren't i listening to my own advice - my man is hot and caring and so so lively - mabey its because i'm sick of waiting for the BIG commitment - girls you know - the ring - mabey its cos he is the only guy i have ever BEEN with sexually and i want to see what other guys are like - but i just need to be strong

2006-08-10 03:19:21 · 15 answers · asked by Ella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hurry i need it for a quiz

2006-08-10 03:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by kumquat.2004 3 in Singles & Dating

i need a wizard for a special purpose.

2006-08-10 03:19:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have 2 daughters, 11 & 14. I am divorced and their father is not in our life, so I am raising them all on my own. In a house with 3 females, it can get kind of chaotic. There are mood swings and personality clashes routinely. However, I have a big problem with them not doing what I tell them to do immediately. If I tell them to fold and put away laundry one day, it might be a day or 2 later before they get around to it. If I tell them to clean the bathroom or clean the countertops and table, it may or may not get done. They don't outright refuse to do what I tell them. They just act like what I say is negotiable and they can move at their own pace. My parents were very strict and I had to hop on demand or face a butt whipping and punishment, but I respect them today and am glad that they ruled with an iron fist, but I had my mom & dad at home. They were like a tag team. I know that my family dynamics are different. How can I tighten up on them but not alienate them? Help!!!

2006-08-10 03:18:27 · 33 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Family

2006-08-10 03:17:07 · 17 answers · asked by Elaine W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-10 03:16:38 · 6 answers · asked by Simba 1 in Friends

2006-08-10 03:16:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

someone (a pretty good friend) (female) just told me she has a crush on me....... i don't really want things to get awkward...

help me..

2006-08-10 03:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-10 03:15:45 · 18 answers · asked by tanesha n 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has two sons. Aged 13 and 11. I have yet to meet them. We are on our third month as girlfriend & boyfriend. Had an argument because I want to be introduced as who I actually am in his life-his girlfriend. I will feel insulted otherwise and would think I'm just one of is women. My boyfriend thinks our argument is petty and I'm being inconsiderate. Pls help me understand my boyfriend's side.

2006-08-10 03:15:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night this guy I am seeing came over.. we were just hanging out watching tv and everything was cool. He got some phone calls, was on the phone for a little while, and then came back and sat next to me. Then we went to bed..I thought he was a little bit in a bad mood and he thought I was upset cause of his phone calls or whatever. Plus he was really hot, but can't sleep with a fan and I knew we were both tired.
So, we are laying in bed not really touching each other (cause he was hot) and we didn't even kiss (cause we both thought we were upset). Then I thought we both fell asleep, but really I guess I just did (he was too hot). Before I knew it I was being woken up by my roommates telling me he just left cause "I seemed really irratated". I called him and asked him why he left me and he just seemed annoyed.. then we texted a while and kind of talked about it.


how is it going to be next time we hang out?? I don't want to screw this one up.. I really like him...

2006-08-10 03:15:02 · 27 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Singles & Dating

awww..i love him so much..i want to give him something he can be surprise of..

2006-08-10 03:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by mitchii 1 in Singles & Dating

to get to know him better
btw i like him as a bf
***serious answers only***

2006-08-10 03:13:49 · 7 answers · asked by italian wakesurfer 2 in Singles & Dating

The specifics are that my wife and I were seperated (not legally) six years ago.While we were apart, I began looking for a house to purchase. The mortgage co. had my wife sign a quit claim deed because the future of our marriage was unclear. She later moved in for approximately five years. Now she has moved out and we are possibly facing divorce. As far as I know, the quit-claim deed is still in force. Can she legally get around this deed and if so, how?

2006-08-10 03:13:19 · 3 answers · asked by Phil W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-10 03:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-10 03:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by gary g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

... who was unable to support me (by being there for me in times of neeed) because he's been in the army for three years (in brittian) - and we only broke up in January - has decided to call me and talk to me like I'm his best friend!!! And we haven't spoken or had any contact the whole time we've been apart... (he chose not to!) Now, he's got a new girlfriend (only three months after we broke up he started dating her) and he's decided to talk to me about their problems?

How mean is that - when he knows I still love him!

Then he says that I shouldn't call him because she's a very jealous person and he'll call me whever he wants to... But we should be mad at each other or hold grudges - he wants to be friends?

Honestly - I still love him very much and it hurts my feelings when he talks about us (he does talk about the past and all the fun times we had...)

I don't think this is fair what should I do?

2006-08-10 03:11:41 · 54 answers · asked by Chellie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Opinions please...am I completely out of my mind?

2006-08-10 03:11:29 · 22 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Singles & Dating

this is for the people who just answered my question a couple of mins ago thanks very much

2006-08-10 03:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by jamescoffman1978 2 in Singles & Dating

my father doesn't like it when i spend some time on grooming (facial, pedicure, etc.), and says that its time and money wastage. i don't spend hours though, i just give myself an hour per week. what should i do to explain him that it is not waste of time and money? are all fathers like that?

2006-08-10 03:10:59 · 11 answers · asked by khushi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 154cm tall..n my weight is 57kg...i'm i too fat?? y guy all like slim gals? y is he too?it's make mi feel so sad...

2006-08-10 03:10:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The person i like, told me to tie a rakhi to him and i did so.Shall i tie it or not. please help me out.I really like him a lot.wat shall i do?

2006-08-10 03:09:40 · 14 answers · asked by ketki 1 in Singles & Dating

tell me why u like the name please?

2006-08-10 03:09:04 · 30 answers · asked by jodij2493 1 in Friends

your response will help me on a research i m conducting.

2006-08-10 03:08:46 · 19 answers · asked by darlington m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a girl calls a guy she might be seen as "desparate" but if the guy calls he might be seen as too "eager"?

2006-08-10 03:08:13 · 4 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is never ever jealous about anything! Guys at the bar ask me to dance and he doesn't get mad at all...And when I tell him about how guys ask me for my phone number or they try to flirt with me all he says is " I don't blame them your gorgeous" He says that he trusts me 100 percent and that there is no reason for being jealous. He says that if I ever cheated on him then we just weren't ment to be but he isn't gonna stress about "maybes", The thing is its hard for me to say anything Jealousy related because of how he acts. I can't act jealous about things because I don't wanna seem like a *****! Does this mean he doesn't care about me? or that he really does trust me

2006-08-10 03:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah D 3 in Other - Family & Relationships