My boyfriend is never ever jealous about anything! Guys at the bar ask me to dance and he doesn't get mad at all...And when I tell him about how guys ask me for my phone number or they try to flirt with me all he says is " I don't blame them your gorgeous" He says that he trusts me 100 percent and that there is no reason for being jealous. He says that if I ever cheated on him then we just weren't ment to be but he isn't gonna stress about "maybes", The thing is its hard for me to say anything Jealousy related because of how he acts. I can't act jealous about things because I don't wanna seem like a *****! Does this mean he doesn't care about me? or that he really does trust me
2006-08-10 03:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't stress it...its good that he isn't jealous...Would you want to fight all the time about stupid crap??? Girls who tell you that a boyfriend who isn't jealous are just trying to justify the fact that they have losers for boyfriends. Just go with it and grow in ur relationship without trying to make a problem out of nothing.
2006-08-10 03:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say you're very fortunate to have a level-headed, secure guy. So many girls complain about their boyfriend/husband/fiance's jealousy and here you are with the exact opposite situation. I'd say don't stress over it. Of course he must love you (sounds like it anyhow) and also that he trusts you, and you need to realize you have a really special guy and appreciate that.
2006-08-10 10:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women would love to have this man as their boyfriend. Sweetheart, leave the drama alone! Enjoy his security and trust in you. If he didn't love you he doesn't have to be with you. You need to be careful what you ask for because you could very well be in a relationship with a psycho-boyfriend whose insecurities require you to check in with him every hour, or he decides what is suitable clothing for you to wear or he accuses you of flirting with male co-workers and embarrasses you at work. Be greatful that you don't have a relationship like this because they are definitely out there. Ask any abused woman.
2006-08-10 10:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kyra B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better for him to trust u then become obsessive which stems from jealousy?? wouldn't u think so..
from what ur saying, those r not reasons for him to be jealous.. ur free to dance w/whom u want.. if ur out having a good time, what u gonna do, just dance w/him the whole night? as long as u don't give ur phone # out, i don't see a problem there either..
he's secure and ain't nothing wrong w/that... if u don't want him, i'll take him...
2006-08-10 10:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would count your blessings.My husband does this also.It took a while to get used to.Last night we went to a concert.Guys were whistling at me and giving him the thumbs up.He was happier than a pig in sh@#.Now that I am more secure with our relationship,I love this attitude!Feel lucky and be happy that you got a very rare breed of man!!
2006-08-10 17:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by jayne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a lucky woman! you should be happy that your boyfriend trust you 100%! take care of it!it's rare to find a guy like your boyfriend.. think positive and you'll be fine! trust him too as he trust you!
2006-08-10 10:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by xieri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying that goes "Love is never jealous." Obviously he loves you and he trusts you.
2006-08-10 10:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you complaining about? You should be HAPPY your boyfriend TRUST you that much!!
2006-08-10 10:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by motherofbjz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have good relationships so don't messed it up he probaly does love you , and trust you good luck you betterkeep that man
2006-08-10 10:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by jenniferrosa_2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋