someone (a pretty good friend) (female) just told me she has a crush on me....... i don't really want things to get awkward...
help me..
2006-08-10 03:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be understanding and BE a true friend. Dont judge her... and Dont stop being friends, but if you DONT address the situation soon.... Things will get awkward. Just tell her flat out... You dont want to ruin your friendship and that you dont want anything More than Friendship. Realize that at first she may feel a little broken hearted, so invite her to a movie, or go get coffee or something... Something you two usually do. That way things will seem normal. Good luck.
2006-08-10 03:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I think it's 2 late for things not to get awkward, if u don't like her like that just find a way to tell her that want hurt her. Cuz u dont need to mess up a good friendship
2006-08-10 10:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak your mind, first of all consider it a compliment and oblige by telling her thank you and if she is someone you want to get to know better, this would be the time to express that you want to do so....if not then be polite and let her know your not ready to have a gf right now...but never burn a bridge you may want to cross later...be polite.
2006-08-10 10:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? well. if u like this female friend, then shouldn't u ask her out and go with her? And if u don't like her then just simply tell her in a nice way that 'i really like u as a good friend, and if we can stay that way, it would be gr8!'
2006-08-10 10:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about her???? Go out on a date with her.What can it hurt? You may find a great gf you didn't even notice before. If not,OK you may still have a friend. She had to work-up the nerve to tell you. Be kind.....
2006-08-10 10:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you don't have the same feelings for her and you like to be just friends... if she doesn't understand, you'll lose a friend, but at least things won't get awkward...
2006-08-10 10:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with her. Most guys aren't friends with girls if they don't find them somewhat attractive.
2006-08-10 10:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you like her? if so, then go for it. if you don't like her and want to remain friends tell her that her friendship it too valuable to you and you don't want to risk it.
2006-08-10 10:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by morgan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is already awkward. theres no turning back.
2006-08-10 10:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to toilet and releas
2006-08-10 10:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mr pogi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋