And how do I know he really loves me when he doesn't say it? He says he's more of an action person.
2006-08-10 02:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by THICKUMS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And if he loves me why doesn't he compliment me without me having to ask for it?
2006-08-10 02:50:19 · update #1
You can't convince him you love him. Be good to him and he will appreciate it (hopefully :).
It's not very hard to tell how someone feels about you. When you show up in front of him does a smile always find its way to his lips? Is he always cheerful when he answers the phone and it's you? Does he ever gaze at you with a smile without saying anything?
If the answer to all of the above was yes, then he definitely loves you.
2006-08-10 02:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone else be the way you want them to be. I know from experience that most men do not want to "talk" about love, much less say it. But they will show you that they olove you by their actions. Actions speak louder than words! And remember ..anyone can lie about loving you, but what you show someone is the truth! I'd take actions over words anyday. People throw love around too much these days without really meaning it...I think you should examine why you need so much reassurance and compliments. You sound needy, why don't you try to treat yourself good and make yourself happy, then you won't need him to! Good luck
2006-08-10 09:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that he is more of an " action person ", then just show how you feel with actions. Not everybody is open with saying "I love you" and other things. If you really love him, then it shouldn't be hard to show it with different things you could do for him. My boyfriend says i love you, but he also shows it in the way he does the " Little things ".
2006-08-10 09:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by kat81886 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By just showing him with actions. Send him flowers. Invite him to dinner. You wanna do something that will make him feel loved. He says he's more of a action person so maybe thats why he hasnt said he loves you yet. Just do the best you can to show him how you feel and if its meant to be it will be.
~Rickeisha
2006-08-10 09:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Words of Affirmation" may very well be YOUR "Love Language", but not your mate's. I would highly reccomend to you Dr. Gary Chapman's book "The Five Love Languages", which helps you explore what you and your mate perceive as "love."
They are: Physical Touch, Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Gifts.
Once you learn to speak his language, and he learns to speak yours, there will be NO DOUBT you love eachother!
2006-08-10 09:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions should say he loves you. You have to accept him the way he is. You can't make him act the way you want him to.
2006-08-10 09:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Worship him. I'm not talking about groveling at his feet. Do things for him. Show him that you care. Just be yourself, and he will see how great you are to him. Besides, if he can't reciprocate love, how can he determine what love is?"
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-10 11:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bake him cookies
call him "my love" at the end of every third sentence
let him see u naked more
ask him directly if he loves u
tell him if he cant express in words learn
2006-08-10 09:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a massage, cook meals for him, its the little things that count.
2006-08-10 09:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lock yourself in your room and never let him in... at the end of the day say:
today i learned one thing.... it's so hard to live without you
2006-08-10 10:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋