My brothers won't have anything to do with me and my new husband. My ex-husband was abusive to me and the three children,and we had a restraining order for a year. I did meet my new husband during the time I was "Married"; he(my ex) lived down the basement and we didn't have sex for about seven years. My family goes out socially with my ex; they have even vacationed with my children during the time he had summer visitation. MY brothers will not even meet my husband. I think it is very odd that when my brother comes into town he calls my ex first so my kids, ex, mom, and he can get together. Frequently, I don't even know he is in town until my kids tell me Uncle Jim was at Dad's with grandma. During an electrical outage,my mother went to live with my ex. My kids (and I) wonder why my family never does anything with me. I've tried asking them if the divorce upset them, but they just bullshit me and say"We are just so busy". How do I handle this? I will not go back to who I was.
2006-08-10
10:05:08
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Skye7112
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Marriage & Divorce