A good friend is over 30 years old. We know each other very well as we used to date but this is not the issue here.
We talk regularly, about everything.
But he lies on unimportant things for no apparent reason, all the time - if we talk more, he ends up contradicting himself on the same topic.
I see him act and he makes people do what he wants subtly. If the person does not do what he has in mind, he makes them feel terribly bad indirectly.
He also make people fight or hate each other by telling subtil thing - like a chess game, he puts the people where he wants them to be, emotionally.
He is charming, all acquaintance thinks he's the best man on Earth.
I don't really know how to help him - how to explain all this - I don't want to hurt his feelings. And to be honest, I am a little scared he'll backstab me.
Is he sick psychologically or just evil?
Even if the answer is to let him resolve his problems, I'd like to know your feeling on my his behavior.
2006-08-08
15:20:04
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