I am tired of being infatuated with a guy who I wouldnt until Christmas. Please help me..i'm a christian and hes of course the answer..sos ...please someone help me..its not healthy..for me to feel this way..
2006-08-08 15:12:05 · 15 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was after one night of IM'ng him ...its been like 3 days i really havent slept properly without thinking of like carnal thoughts!!! :(
2006-08-08 15:16:23 · update #1
"i'm a christian and hes of course the answer..sos ...please someone help me..its not healthy..for me to feel this way.."- this is a song guys...
2006-08-08 15:19:02 · update #2
RELATIONSHIP LIFE CYCLE
1. Infatuation
2. Head over Heals
3. I Love the little Cutsie things he/she does
4. Marriage
5. Bee-Yotch/Jerk snores
6. I hate the little Cutsie things he/she does
7. No more sex
8. Wife: "Blow what?"
9. Husband: "I gotta take a dump"
10. Divorce
2006-08-09 04:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by huxtable_grimm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation lasts for a while, but you need to ask yourself if you are ready to be committed to this person, and whether they are ready to be committed to you. If the answer is no, then this is not a relationship you want to be getting into, and the infatuation will pass. Be patient and wise, as these decisions will live with you the rest of your life.
2006-08-08 22:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the drama for your momma!
If you know you have the hots for this dude and he's not available, get over it. All you're doing is making yourself miserable. Some people love to live in misery, are you one of those?
Just remember every moment you have thinking about this guy, you're missing an opportunity to meet somebody that may really be good for you.
Its your choice, be miserable or be happy. We can't give you answers here. You just need to decide.
TX Guy
2006-08-08 22:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From about one months to as long as a couple of years. I would guess the average time reality starts to rear it's ugly head is around six months. That is if the other person doesn't show any bright red flags before!
2006-08-08 22:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your use of the english language in your question is so appalling that I really can't even understand what in the heck you are trying to say. Take another look at it, modify it so it makes sense, and I will try to give you an answer.
Also a Christian,
Jon
2006-08-08 22:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur a christian then the person u should be turning to is GOD! Ask him to help you through this. find good, full of faith christian friends and surround yourself with them. prayer and encouragement are your best options here. also try talking to ur pastor about this. if ur really still stuck, the most i can say is ask him out! if you like him it might work out, but if u think hes gross or something your problem will end right there.
2006-08-08 22:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by samdragonsfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is healthy and quite normal. dont think that yr any different from the next person. dont think that yr bad person because you really like someone. youll find more to yr question on this site
2006-08-08 22:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you thought it may not be infatuation. he may be the perfect guy for you and he may be the one for you.. so i would say give it a shot.. before giving up
2006-08-08 22:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Dumbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just long enough to make someone feel like a fool
2006-08-08 22:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by lelynroberts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sweetie, long-distance relationships are hard.
you're having thoughts of "moving on" because it's probably time to do just that.
good luck.
2006-08-08 22:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋