Family & Relationships - 3 August 2006

My ex and I dated for 3 years but broke up for long distance. I found out recently that he likes guys also. One minute he says he loves me and the next minute I am unsure. I really love him so much and I feel like he is the guy that is gonna marry but now I am a little unsure. Is it stupid to give alot into one guy who isn't sure about his sexuality?? I wish I knew what I could do and I would really appreciate it if someone could help me with this situation. I am suppose to move out to California in 2 years to be with him and risk my whole life, but after finding this thing out, I am scared that I will lose him and end up alone. Is it smart to be with someone who has fooled with someone of the same sex on numerous occasions and goes back and forth between their emotions? He says that we will always be friends no matter what, but no matter how hard we try, we can never be friends and end up together again but how will i know if he decides to marry me and then leaves me for a guy?Help me

2006-08-03 16:05:43 · 14 answers · asked by Babygurl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother in law is constantly getting into trouble with the law.
He keeps saying he is sorry and he won't do it again. Been happening for 6 yrs now. We have had custody of his child for that long. I was wondering how many people think it is ignorant if i send him a post card to jail telling him, "what ever, your actions suggest otherwise. I say this because he just sent us a letter today telling us that he is sorry, ect ect ect. We are just so fed up with excuse after excuse, and us (my husband and I) having to tell our nephew why he can't be with his parents. Its more sad than anything because I know my nephew loves his parents, but on one hand it seems if they love him so much why do they do the things that they constantly do to seperate themselves from him.

2006-08-03 16:04:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is he?

2006-08-03 16:03:57 · 22 answers · asked by questions 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that everyone romantizes marriage! It is so much hard work. Do you not feel that as women?men we have been cheated. The fairy tale that we expected is not there.

2006-08-03 16:03:53 · 15 answers · asked by soo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that i can turn my guy on.
in public.
and private (espically)
hmmm

2006-08-03 16:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, what does a guy look for in a girl? other then sex, i mean like what do they look for in their personalitys and beauty?

2006-08-03 16:02:59 · 19 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 7 months pregnant and everyone I see teases me and aks if I am having twins. My doctor once listened to the baby's heartbeat alot longer than usual, left me and hubby raising our our eyebrows in curiosity but never asked what's going on. During my 2nd trimester I had a sore tailbone the entire time. My ultrasound revealed one baby reaching up like they normally do, but there was a dip at the top. My doc said it was a muscle wall. Does this sound like there could be two, or is this all normal speculation?

2006-08-03 16:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Family

2006-08-03 16:02:04 · 37 answers · asked by Krissy G 1 in Singles & Dating

The problem? This suitable match for me has just started working at the same place I do! Is it a mistake to date a co-worker? Okay, let's say that its not a mistake for a moment. I've been out of the dating world for over a year now, and I don't remember how to socialize with potential mates? I know you'll probably say 'just be yourself', well duh! But how do I take him out of the work environment to a social environment? And what type of environment would be suitable for getting to know him better? Eek, help!

2006-08-03 16:00:57 · 16 answers · asked by yayachicky 2 in Singles & Dating

Such as:
1. different religion
2. different region (such as you live in a different planet)
3. different living style (eg: you are a bookworm and she is partygal)
4. huge age difference....eg: you are 20 and he is 40
etc

2006-08-03 16:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 16:00:02 · 22 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never known why and now I want to know.

2006-08-03 16:00:00 · 15 answers · asked by Violet 3 in Weddings

how come all of my ex told me i promised them about something....but i cant recall any of those words?

2006-08-03 15:59:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 15:59:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to contact my sister-in-law. Her name is Mary Ann Holden. She lives at 87 Wehmeyer Loop, M. Home, Arkansas, 72653. We are trying to do a geneology tree for the Flanigan's.

2006-08-03 15:58:33 · 4 answers · asked by mini_van_mom2000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my friend jose are so close. we went to the movies the other day and he totally made a move on me. we ended up holding hands and all that. i had a crush on him forever so i was very happy. he decided to ignore my calls for about a week and now that we have talked he refuses to talk about what happened. i don't want to loose the friendship but i want to know what happened between us and what it meant for him. i feel used somehow. am i wrtong for feeling this way. i want advice from everyone. especially guys. i want to know what a guy is thinking in the situation. please!

2006-08-03 15:58:08 · 14 answers · asked by vicky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 15:57:59 · 21 answers · asked by tutuskwad 1 in Family

2006-08-03 15:57:41 · 16 answers · asked by yo 1 in Family

2006-08-03 15:57:35 · 8 answers · asked by aaron_mmc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hug guys or any thing like that i always give a had shake so how do i know when the the right moment or know when a guy does not ming a hug

2006-08-03 15:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 15:56:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is this true

2006-08-03 15:56:04 · 6 answers · asked by deejay.thompson 2 in Singles & Dating

It`s seems that occasionally out of the many mini crushes I develop, one seems to stand out. I can hardly stop thinking anout the guy in question. I want to find out as much as possible about the guy and I start practically stalking him! I don`t want that to happen. It seems like I become totally OBSESSED even though I don`t intend on it. I put him up on this pedestal thinking he`s the perfect guy (When I`ve said maybe fifty words to him!) Then I start looking for flaws and The crush eventually goes away. What the hell is wrong with me??

2006-08-03 15:55:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my hubby has lost interest in sex after our baby has born. my baby is now 2 yrs but still he does not want me. But before our baby was born he used to long for for sex.

2006-08-03 15:54:21 · 5 answers · asked by kiran123 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious answers please.I got a text from his phone stating that I must not text him again,but from the way it was written I kinda knew it wasn't him.I texted back and asked him who was he?and that he was not supposed to called me for any advice relating to him and his big pussy gal.(He called me sunday for advice we are still friends)Then the girl text me back stating that its too dirty to write, but I did start it with a lot of curse words, she even said that I must leave people things alone.People I am in a stable relationship and I am happy with it but I am so pissed at this *****.They are living in another country by the way.I sent her a message asking her why her man still correspond with me?and that when a man had a good girl he will still love her and be friends with her.My ex and I parted because of our location and I know he still loves me he told me that.Do u think I should call his num and find out what she is doing with his phone?Just tell me what to do please

2006-08-03 15:54:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jachica 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-03 15:54:15 · 7 answers · asked by Ronnie B 1 in Family

2006-08-03 15:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

.....they hope that you will watch them for tips, when they know that they can not last as long as the men making the tape and lack the talent it takes to make out for..... twenty mins. or more?

2006-08-03 15:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating

hope you all enjoyed...haha...ulll see

2006-08-03 15:52:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would you date a guy who has many visible tattoos, but who is no longer involved in that type of lifestyle, you know good job, cars, etc.

2006-08-03 15:52:40 · 18 answers · asked by Rand213 1 in Singles & Dating