if your husband says that he is not cheating on you and you look on his screenname and see singles .com is he

Question

is he?

Answer 1

i hate to say it but its a possibility. don't jump to conclusions but have your guard up. Check for unusual behaviors and come out and ask him about singles.com. If he gives you a shady answer then you should look into it more. If it turns out that he acutally is cheating on you then you don't need him. Nobody deserves a cheater-- you are better than that.

Answer 2

Yes, or he would if he had the chance.
How do i know that so easily you are asking? Well it is simple, if it was innocent then he would have said "no an i like to look on line profiles tho" or something like that because he would not be Thinking about it hard. Plus really what would you be looking at the singles for? And last but not least and probably the most important the way that you ask the question. "if your husband says" basically Tells me that you do not trust, or believe him. If you did then you would ask like this. : "I cog ht mu husband looking in the Singles.com sights, but he says that he is not cheating on me. Is he?" Maby this will help you out.

Answer 3

oh not necessarily. I'm not familiar with singles.com, is it a matchmaking site, or a dating classifieds type site. My husband is always looking at those things, just for kicks if nothing else. Sometimes he even emails them to me just to get a laugh. Some of them can be pretty funny at times, lol. But if you are concerned then you really need to check into it, atleast let him know you feel disrespected. He may not even realize how he's hurting you.

Answer 4

There's only two reasons for a married man to be on singles.com. 1) He could be looking at a profile of someone at the request of a friend. 2) He could be looking for someone to cheat on you with.

You need to confront him. I think we all know it probably isn't number 1. So, hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. And, find a marriage counselor soon.

Good Luck to you.

Answer 5

Maybe he wants to .... and the question you should ask yourself is- WHY? Before letting on that you're suspecting it, go and have a really romantic evening together, try to connect even more than you are now (and I have no idea what degree that is, but it doesn't sound promising). You might find out where the holes in your relationship are - then start patching ASAP.

Answer 6

how long have you been married it could be that he is only curious like us or maybe he's just being a guy on the net and looking for you know what guys like to do look but if you are very uncomfortable with it. tell him that you believe and so he shouldn't mind if you do it and let me tell you he will be very quick to stop and may try dressing in something you know meet him at the door and tell him how much you miss him and you know maybe he just board and is just looking around i have been married for 30 years mine was doing it the net and when i started to make him feel like you he was my stud and blah blah suddenly he was interested in us again "guys need attention too good luck

Answer 7

why did you look on his screen name? I think you have more problems than him cheating on you and that's trust. Why marry if you don't trust him. Me and my boyfriend share a computer and a log in and I would never even think of looking into the history to see where he's going. I don't log into his email or screen names to see what he's up to because I trust him. And he doesn't me either.

Just because he looked on Singles.com doens't mean anything, and I think if you try to bring it up he's going to flip out because I honestly feel that what you did was disrespectful.

Answer 8

yeah seriously hire a private investigator please, this isn't your boyfriend its your husband! private investigators will be diff prices. i believe they can also charge you on what sort of information your looking for, if you want pictures, how many days you want him to follow your hubby around. If its an unplanned following. I think you should spend the $900 and find out the truth, then if he is you get divorced , and your money is back in your pocket. if hes cheating that's adultery

Answer 9

I think you need to hire a private investigator to find out if he is meeting anyone somewhere! I hear that when men go on the singles.com sites- they may be looking for something so be careful. If your instincts tell you he may be doing something- question the h*ll out of him! You have the right to know.

Answer 10

Yes