my hubby has lost interest in sex after our baby has born. my baby is now 2 yrs but still he does not want me. But before our baby was born he used to long for for sex.
2006-08-03 15:54:21 · 5 answers · asked by kiran123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have been marrieed for 16 years and its because my wife knows how to keep my attention so give this a listen . personaly I love it when a woman is bold enough to simply grab me and kiss me. men enjoy a lady who will initiate sex. also men enjoy a lady who will doll herself up for us and be flirty with us. maybe try initiating a date with your guy, and leading the way through the whole thing, up untill the point he naturally takes controll.
I hope this helps and good luck. ps your guys lucky to have a lady who wants to know how to keep him
2006-08-03 16:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be a few reasons.. Many women after giving birth do not get back to pre-pregnancy shape. Some men find that unattractive and want their wifes to "Get back in Shape" Another possibilty is that he is too tired. Having a child around the house takes up a lot of the parents time, coupled with work maybe he is not in the mood? Does your child sleep in the same room as you? I have heard some stories that men are just not into sex as much because you are a more of a mother now and less as a wife.
2006-08-03 23:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you picked up weight he may have lost interest..and dosen't want to hurt your feelings...or he may be afraid you will get pregnant again and cannot afford another child at this time...or sadly he may not be satisfied in bed anymore...you should talk about this with him as soon as possible..prepare yourself ahead of time to keep an open mind and LISTEN to him..then decide what you want to do from their..it can be worked out if you both try..
2006-08-03 22:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you just need to light the fire a bit. try taking an art of exotic dancing class. then one night, take the baby to a babysitter. cook dinner for him and surprise him with a dance. he'll love it and you'll have fun too.
the class is fun too. i took it about a year ago and my friends and i are taking another one soon.
2006-08-03 22:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... how do i put it be SUDUCTIV make him want to have it belive me all men want it.!
if he dosent start suspicting
pssssssst..... cheating on you maby
im shor you will be fine :)
2006-08-03 23:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋