I wrote a few weeks back about my verbally/emotionally(have been physical 3 times by choking me over the years, last time was 4 years ago. I have been with him for 12 years, married for 8. we have 2 childred a daughter 6 and a son 4.
He has called me every name in the book including fat *****, stupid ************, weakist link, lazy, useless etc. He does this in front of our kids and they cry or like today they hide. I feel like this marriage is killing me and i haven't left yet. He always never takes up for me when it comes to his family(his father and borther bothe cursed me out and he says good because he doesn't like me either). I cry almost ever other day. He is not going to counseling with me tomorrow(picked a fight today because I ate some of the kid's food). He isn't going to go so my question is do you think I have done all that I can? I'm going to therapy alone right now. I just don't want to feel guilty for breaking up my "family". We can go over to live with my mom. Help
2006-07-26
20:42:23
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Veronique
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Marriage & Divorce