well it started a long time ago, i thought she would never like me and well somehow she did. Anyways in a friends party i bought her a rose and chocolate and told her that i liked her and i asked if she felt the same way, she said yes and smiled at me i thought i was the luckiest man ever. we started talking more and texting love messages to urselves and it was nice. But for about 2 weeks weve been trying to go out alone and we couldnt cause something always go in the way.. anyways i called her today and tol her that i wanted to go out and she said tha she couldnt cause she was going out with some friends and i said ok hw bout friday and she said i cant going out with some other friends, and the she said i gotta go and practically hanged up on me. I was devastated and know i found out she is going away to the lake for one week so one more week of suffering for me. I dont know if she will get over me or something. The truth is i wanna be with her and i miss her a lot alredy. HELP ASAP
2006-07-26 20:48:45 · 6 answers · asked by john m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 20:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's lieing to you maybe she doesn't like you as much anymore. Or maybe she just needs time alone. You need you space and she needs her's sometimes. Only caus you're going out doesn't mean you should be together all the time. Try to find out what's wrong. If when she gets back she still doesn't wanna hang wit u then she really is sick of you and her affection have changed. But don't be stupid and break up with her or something. Have a talk with her. That always solves conflicts.
2006-07-26 20:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hadassa Marciano1994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple really. To answer your first question, she likes you if she talks to you. However, this girl in particular doesn't anymore. She's making excuses not to be with you because she isn't interested in you anymore.
You're probably wondering how that happened, so I'll tell you. Constantly talking to her, always trying to say nice things to her, and basically just going out of your way to be there for her chased her off. If you don't give the relationship some breathing room, you choke it to death.
My advice, get over her and move on. You're just waiting around for someone who obviously doesn't care about you as much as you think she does. I know, it's cruel, but that's life man. It happens.
Ironically, if you start showing interest in another girl and this one finds out, it's possible she might come back around and talk to you again. Your chances are slim to none at this point, but you don't have any other choice if you really want her back. Don't take my word on it though, see for yourself.
2006-07-26 20:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she remembers little things that you say, like your favorite ice cream. And the next time you go see her she has it. Or if she mirrors your moves. These are signs that she has a little crush on you too.
2006-07-26 20:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to enjoy herself with her friends.Thats not wrong.So there's no need of u worrying abt her.
2006-07-26 20:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by KIRAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her
2006-07-26 20:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by armaas b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋