2006-07-26 20:52:57 · 16 answers · asked by zyzzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong per se, but it's not gonna help your chance of finding a date (which I assume is the point of posting in Singles & Dating.).
2006-07-26 20:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jim T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you must be anti-social for being a loner. Or are you just a shy person? Probably you got to start talking to people. Start a simple conversation by saying, "hi, how are you doing?" But if you like being a loner, I guess it's okay. I think there's nothing wrong about it. Unless you have problems at home that causes you to stay away from people, then maybe yes. You're maybe afraid of getting hurt. But, hey everyone does. It's a factor of life. Take care.
2006-07-26 21:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing wrong with that. Some people are that way, the same way some people can't stand to ever be alone. I think loners can be pretty secure people, but if you totally cut yourself off from everyone, that is not really very healthy. You should have at least one or two friends, not just go along all by yourself. It is sometimes hard to find a friend you can trust, but I hope you will find a friend or two..
2006-07-26 21:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your a loner. You have so much time to learn who you truly are. But I call people like that true. Because they are not apt to outside influences. But the question is who are you true to. If you are true to God. Then you are not a loner.
2006-07-26 20:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with being a loner.
2006-07-26 20:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can find enough within yourself to be at least content then no. Not everyone is the life and soul of the party. Someone once told me there are two types of people - those who need 'energy' from outside, from others and other's company and those who can find that 'energy' from being alone to recharge so to speak. I love being with my family and friends but often just want to be alone to think my own thoughts and do my own thing; have some peace and quiet. As long as you are OK with it then that's OK. If you are sad with your situation then please go and seek some friends.
2006-07-26 21:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by histrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what is a loner more then a state of mind. you think you are a loner but i bet you have some close friends. you are just shy and should try to boost your confedince
2006-07-26 20:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by heyheyitsyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. It's just no fun. No one understands you or cares about you too much. It's boring and sad. Makes me feel like crying and writing songs and poems and a book about being lonely.
2006-07-26 20:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-26 21:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by dinesh r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋